A friend's post  

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
7028 posts
5/19/2006 9:15 am

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A friend's post

A very special friend of mine posted something today that I've expected (hoped) to see for a long time. [post 353524]

I hope it helps to bury the demons.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
5/19/2006 9:25 am

For his sake I hope so too. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/19/2006 9:55 am:
He's a good man, Uncle Joe.

hotlieblings 45M

5/19/2006 9:52 am

nice girl

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
5/19/2006 2:36 pm

Everything I've seen says that Kel. And if he's special to you, well, then he's got to be a good man. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

reverend21 49M
1913 posts
5/19/2006 3:39 pm

It helps bury some demons, but it awakens others that have long hast been sleeping.

puntachueca 105M

5/19/2006 4:39 pm

From reading his post, it sounds familiar. It is also known as "borderline personality disorder". I was in a relationship with a BPD..and my therapist at one point told me to watch "Fatal Attraction" and "Basic Instinct" because that was who I was living with ...and to remove all knives and other weapons from the house if I wasn't smart enough to run like hell and get as far away as I could get.

And after an experience like that, it is very hard to go back into any kind of relationship and it takes a long time to recover.

I think we need a program like "victim/witness" where women or men, who really have to get far away from an abusive situation, can get a change of identity, restart their lives, and live again without fear of being killed.

uandmeknow 54M
10 posts
5/19/2006 8:49 pm

hello from New Mexico,read it ,liked it, want it,What more can i say you are very interesting women your mind your body WOW,Demons could be good or could be bad, so which ones are you afraid of? Good question ,those demons that are skeletons in the closet could be bad but, there are some i love to remember what about you which do you prefer? The good the bad or the ugly?

tillerbabe 56F

5/20/2006 2:00 am

Excellent., I'll check it out..

marcusgarvey008 45M

5/20/2006 3:09 pm

Reading all these posts about abuse makes me realize how good I have had it in my relationships. My last LTR was 3.5 years, and while we ended it, we ended on good terms. When we disagreed we discussed things. When we were angry we'd have open discussions, etc.

The only thing wrong was that we were different people. I liked sex, she didn't. I liked music, she didn't. I liked dressing nice, she didn't. I had a passion for things, she didn't. In the end it led me to move on.

But these posts make me appreciate what I DID have, and hope I can find someone else to have such a good relationhsip with, in addition to great sex and sharing music. Hopefully I can avoid any of the abusive stuff others seem to go through.

SOrry to hear that these things happen...

MaggiesWishes 60F

5/20/2006 9:11 pm

Abuse ... knows no name or gender.

warm huggies 2ya Sis
you are a good soul

rm_acer57 59M
124 posts
5/21/2006 10:01 am

The story of my divorce is similar to his. Yes, there are differences but in many respects the same. My ex- tried to hire a lawyer to counter sue but ended up allowing it to go through uncontested, because she didn't have a case against me. ( I guess there are a few lawyers who will tell their prospective client that they have no hope of winning! )

My closest friends were 100% for the marriage and later, 100% for the divorce. It's easier to let go and move ahead when you know that you gave it your best, and that some things are simply beyond your ability.

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
5/21/2006 10:28 am

thanks...I'm going to check it now...

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

5/21/2006 2:35 pm

Okay, hold the phone, and hold the post, which I read, and thanks for the read...but...

What is a crush my dear? Why do you feel the need, or let alone the want to express something to somebody else without telling me? My intentions are from from that...I am mad, and hurt because of this.

That is why it is put on your blog..ban me delete me, your choice but it will be there for you to read, and you know exactly what I'm talking about.

I don't ever believe I have encouraged this, or have given you complete full permission to talk behind my back. I have not done that ot you..why do it to me?

Goddamn, it hurts bad..so Yay for the older men!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/21/2006 7:32 pm:
Huh? Go see the comment I made on fantasylover's blog for his 200th post.

blueguy1051 60M

5/23/2006 2:53 pm

So that's why so many visitors ...

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