why do Ppeople inflict hurt on those Tthey love?  

rm_kat_in_vinyl 43F
17 posts
6/18/2006 11:20 pm

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why do Ppeople inflict hurt on those Tthey love?

why is it that the Ppeople who are closest to Yyou are the ones who can hurt Yyou the most? Tthey know exactly what to say to hit home and make Yyou feel like someone ripped out a piece of Yyour heart and soul? and why do Tthey do it in the first place? why do Ppeople find it necessary to say things they know will hurt Yyou? why are Ppeople intentionally cruel? i'm not saying that i'm an innocent in this. i've done it myself and always felt like total garbage afterwards. just wondering why Ppeople find it compelling to do it to begin with. why do Wwe have to strike out at Tthose Wwe love when Wwe are angry or hurt when Wwe should be turning to Tthem for support and companionship? when Wwe are down is when Wwe need these Ppeople the most. and instead of embracing Tthem when Tthey are needed, Wwe push Tthem away by saying things to hurt Tthem. and why to Wwe continue to put up with this kind of thing from these Ppeople? why don't Wwe just walk away from Tthem and find Ssomeone who can embrace Uus when Wwe need Tthem to and not point out all Oour shortcomings? do Wwe think that Wwe can't find Ssomeone who will accept Uus for who Wwe are....flaws and all?


MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
6/19/2006 12:10 am

Theyre called family...it's their job to make us miserable and kick us when were down so that when they lift us up they can visualize us kissing their asses into the next century. Sheesh! Even an edjunmukated hillbilly gal like me has figured that much out. *mischievious grin* c


rm_kat_in_vinyl 43F

6/19/2006 12:20 am

    Quoting MamChelle:
    Theyre called family...it's their job to make us miserable and kick us when were down so that when they lift us up they can visualize us kissing their asses into the next century. Sheesh! Even an edjunmukated hillbilly gal like me has figured that much out. *mischievious grin* c
*giggles* yeah well i expect that from my family....that what they're there for....but not from friends....Tthey're supposed to be the Oones i can go to when my family DOES piss me off....and my darling, you are FAR from a hillbilly...hell i live in hillbilly central...lol
=^..^=


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