Good lord Kali, quit drinking and blogging!  

rm_kalisweet 47F
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5/27/2006 10:57 am

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5/30/2006 11:52 am

Good lord Kali, quit drinking and blogging!

I log on today, and only vaguely remember adding last night's post. Forgive me, that was pretty bad. But I'll keep it up, I do like the pic

So my Friday night turned out pretty good.......but a question did come up.

I believe in honesty, but at the same time I think some things should be kept quiet. Currently I do not wish to focus on any one man.......I would ideally like to have 2-3 lovers. I'll make no secret about it, but men sure like to ask about the others in my life, and I'm not sure how much to say. I can just tell that with some men, no matter what they say, the fact that I am with other men bothers them. So I guess it serves as a test, if they don't like it they can leave.

But it is so telling.......every single one asks!

BuxomFrau 44

5/28/2006 11:19 am

Well, in 2006, don't you think they should ask? I know I would. The risk for disease goes up expotentially with the more lovers on has. If you are sleeping with 3 people at once, each one of those people is exposed to more risk as opposed to it being one-on-one. i think it's terrific that you are honest with them about sleeping with other people while sleeping with them, however they have the right to question your sexual practices with them. alternately, they have the right not to engage in sexual contact with you if you having multiple sex partners bothers them.

thats the beauty of communication and honesty.

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