uber busy  

rm_jyrmelle 32M
8 posts
8/30/2006 7:52 am

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9/6/2006 2:29 am

uber busy


god, its been so long. oh well, glad to be back.

a problem occured recently. well, not really a problem, just a nagging thought.

a lady i'd been seeing a while now always had a abstinence to oral. Receiving has always been a pleasure for her, but she detests (for reasons of hygiene) giving. we've discussed this for a long while now, and i've promised never to request for her in this particular engagement.

so it took me off (literally) when one nice sweaty day, she suddenly just plunged down when we were getting nitty gritty in 4play. and god, was she gr8, despite being her first time.(guess the fact that she was willing to swallow just pushed the button for me.)


so just wondering, what is it that would make you ladies change a particular habit and cause you to willingly indulge in it?

rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
8/31/2006 7:49 am

Someone who mesmerises you. For me, anal is the last frontier, so to speak, but I'm reconsidering it, but not just for any 'ol person.

btw, I find it really strange for a woman not to like giving bjs, 'cos it really one of the best things around. And especially so, if she likes receiving it herself- wah, I think it's a bit too much, man- hope you don't mind my saying so.


rm_jyrmelle 32M
12 posts
8/31/2006 9:18 am

hahah m'lady, not everyone is like you. honestly speaking i do enjoy giving, but its not too hard to understand in terms of hygiene why some ladies don't.

she's not the first with this request, so i've come to think tt its normal

nah... i don't mind you comments. in fact, almost all of the pple i've discussed this with wonders the same.


rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
8/31/2006 4:03 pm

You said: "honestly speaking i do enjoy giving, but its not too hard to understand in terms of hygiene why some ladies don't."

That's where I think they're really wrong- a guy's dick is a very external thing, unlike a woman's pussy with all its folds, and frankly speaking, I think a woman's spread out pussy looks really ugly. Whereas an erect dick is one of the most beautiful looking things in the world.

Funnily though, although I love giving bjs, I don't like being eaten myself, so if one looks into my profile, I've put giving oral, but I did not fill out the receiving part. Somehow getting eaten seems too vulnerable for me, and I don't often allow it, if at all. And during the rare times I do ('cos the guys insist), I can't relax and will stop it very quickly, 'cos somehow, I get a sense of growing panic.
Weird, I know, but that's my quirk...


rm_jyrmelle 32M
12 posts
9/6/2006 2:29 am

aight work again took the wind outta me, sry hun for the late reply.

hmmmmm

this condition of yrs aint tt alien to me... not saying tt i experience the same

just tt there was this lovely lady who gave a great bj, but never allowed my tongue anywhere near hers, with a simple reason "i dont like."

maybe you've just made me understand whats on her mind then

but on a note, i don't think it looks hideous like u said.


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