Violence never solved anything my ass!!  

rm_jynxgurl 29F
175 posts
1/27/2006 3:05 pm

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4/23/2006 5:47 am

Violence never solved anything my ass!!

In eighth grade I was very unpopular and the kids in my class were excessively cruel. Then one day near the end of the year I cracked and roundhouse kicked a guy in the head X_X

Can you say ouch? He fell backwards, crying (jeez what a wimp huh?) and instead of people being mad at me they CHEERED me!!! WTF? A very unpopular kid takes down a very popular kid and the class cheers? It did not match my past observances of social belief.

Then again I was the smallest kid in the class and he was the 3rd largest, not exactly a fair fight. So the they must of made an exception to the rule ^_^ lol you should of seen thier faces after i did that kick!! Absolutely slack-jawed shocked!! lol!!

Anyways, that kick had the effect of branding me as one bad ass martial arts chick. FYI I never actually took a martial arts class in my life, I just happened to be a tomboy all my life and as such all my freinds except one were all boys, most of whom took self defence classes of some sort.

Having all those friends that knew how to fight when I didn't pissed me off so I got them to teach me all the moves they learned. So I know a great variety of moves from all sorts of self defence (including boxing, karate and judo ^_^).

Learning and sparing every recess with at least one person since kindergarten and constant practise at home made me good enough so eventually I could defeat ALL my friends in sparring. Not that anyone in my eith grade class knew this till I displayed my skill ^_^ hehehe that was fun!

So going into highschool I was cleared of my past as being uncool. Over the summer i had whined and bitched till my mom bought me some new "cool" clothes. So I was able to easily make many friends since it's such a huge school one or none of my former class was in any of my classes.

Making all these friends I eventually climbed the social ladder till I was right up there with the popular kids ^_^ yeah me!!! That first grade nine year my mom bought me a skatboard for christmas and with alot of practise (and a few broken wrists) I learned how to ride it and learned a few tricks.

For one of my classes I got special permision to scatboard around the school for a videoshoot, earning my nickname "skatergurl" ^_^ Wahoo!!

Now I have a mini fanclub!! hehehe yep, some noob niner worships me and hangs around me and my friends. ^_^ when anyone starts telling him to go away I just say "NOOOO!!! He is my mini fanclub!! What will I do without my fanclub?" then give a little puppy pout face and overact the sadness bit so it is comical and he gets to stay and is now, in extension of myself, considered one of us (a group of my friends who are considered "cool" and usually hang out together in the halls rather than the cafe). ^_^

Every once in a while my little fan will gush over how "cool" I am. lol now that is the best ever self esteem boost there is!! ^_^ hehehe I have a fanclub and you don't!!! Being an emo skatergurl rocks!!! lol!!!

Sometimes other people look at me weird cuz I have a habit of yelling random things to nothing, but that's ok cuz I have gotten in the habit of laughing at them ^_^ lol!! Seriously, try it and see people's expressions!! It is hilarious!! I love it!!

The only bad thing about being populer, is maintaining said popularity. Like for instance, there is this loser kid nicknamed "Ms Pggy" cuz she has the face of a pig, and when she hugs guys they make the same face Kermit does when hugged/kissed by Ms Piggy.

Almost everyone in the group tells her to go away and she never does. Multiple times they have poured pop over her head and still she refuses to leave. This is ridiculous!! If she would go away then no one would bug her, why go looking for this kind of rejection?

She cannot be this lonely for company, I had it even worse than her and I retreated to the library rather than hang around those that picked on me. Why is she doing this!?

I once offered to go with her and hang out with her in the library so she would be away from the tormentors, but she declined ~_~

I tryed introducing her to nice ( and unpopular like her) people so she can make friends and not hang around anymore, no such luck. She not only declined thier friendship, but dissed them too. For no reason or provaction. She thinks she is better than them!!!

So now I am 100% pissed at her and join in on the tormenting. Not exactly a good thing, but she pisses me off!! You do not, under any circumstances, turn away nice people who want to be your friend, no matter how unpopular they are!! Especially if you are even more unpopular!!!

Sooo pissed at her!! Grrrr.... She reminds me of a song "Hit the road Jack, and dontcha come back no more, no more, no more" you know it.

Oh well, I tried to save her but failed due to her own denial and stupidity. If she wasn't as bad as she is I would feel bad about bugging her, but she is, and I don't.

As I have said before

"Being unpopular did not teach me to be nice:
Being unpopular taught me to be mean.
Being unpopular taught me survival.
Being unpopular means I know,
I know what it means to be truly alone.

I will never go back to that,
Even if it means joining the horrible "they".
Don't think you would not do the same,
You probably already have.

Do not judge what you do not know!!"

Except I know, and she has not behaved as a decent person would have and I am reacting accordingly. She may be a target, but in this case it is her own doing. If she is a wanna be popular kid that will stomp on others to get where she wants to be, then she is not worth helping.

Why would I help out someone who would use thier status to do harm? Like WTF? Maybe I should bitch slap some sense into her or something...

gnr8nrg 45M

1/27/2006 8:49 pm

Hi Jynxgurl. This brought back so many memories from school. In grade school I remember a heiarchy of picking on each other order. There were 3 main groups. The jocks, long hairs, and then the ones that got picked on by everybody. I was one of the long hairs. In high school the long hairs and jocks became one group and it became diverse from all the other groups from other schools. Then it was separated by grades, 9/10 and 11/12. New groups formed and then came college. God I loved college, because a lot of the BS started falling away.

rm_jynxgurl 29F
209 posts
1/27/2006 9:42 pm

Everyone is picked on at one time or another. Even the popular kids. I know cuz everyone of my close friends who are cool, popular people have admitted to it. I do not dislike this person because she has no friends and is shy, I don't like her because she purposely hangs around people who treat her like shit, and when someone actually tries to be nice to her she treats them like shit. It is just... so stupid!!!

rm_jynxgurl 29F
209 posts
1/27/2006 10:28 pm

too bad you were not in the same school same time I was, I would of made friends with you very easily!! The people I hang out with can be a little cruel at times, but most of them are very nice the rest of the time. Sounds lame but it is true. Well, they are nice to me anyways, and after a year of absolute scorn from everyone, that means alot...

You may of been unpopular, but sounds like you had the good sense not to hang around where you were not wanted, MsPiggy does not. Not only that but she treats anyone who is nice to her like they had couties (yes, couties, she is that imature). As if anyone who wants to be her friend must be some sort of social pariah and therefor should avoid for the sake of her nonexistent social life. Any way you put it, if this is how she treats people who want to be her friend it is no wonder she has no friends. I don't even think she deserves any if this is all she sees them as. A stepladder to popularity. friends are people you TRUST, that you stick up for, that you confide in, that you rely on for support on times of need. People are not tools!!

You sound like you understand this and that is what makes you a good friend to have. Remember the value of friendship and I can garuantee that you will always have a true friend.

1023 posts
1/28/2006 10:31 am

*crying* you know? I'm that miss Piggy around here!

and I can't believe you said you'd be one of "them" before being unpopular, that never seemed like you before, tsk tsk!

TorontoGuy55 36M

1/28/2006 12:55 pm

Violence gets shit done. Not that it's a good thing, though - violence is BAD. But it gets shit done.

That's all.

(anecdote: I got beat-up in 8th grade...I wasn't the big kid though...eventually I got his ass back! My buddy and I kicked his ass the next year in high school...he was an asshole)

P.S. HornyViking's right (he looks like my 1st yr. physics prof.). Don't trade in your personality for's not worth it!

jadedbabe78 105F

1/28/2006 11:12 pm

I was the stuck up bitch in high school and hung with the popular kiddies. I was a little mean back then, *sigh*. It wasn't until AFTER HS that I became friendly with everyone---by then it didn't matter. It shouldn't have while in school---but it always is the case.

And roundhouse kicked him ...are you related to Chuck Norris, by an chance?? heehee

MillsShipsGayly 51M

1/30/2006 7:03 am

Yup .. I was in the popular clique and had an occasional fight cause boys sometimes do that. Won them all cause I had the ability to dig deep into the rage.

One day before heading off to college, my younger sister said to me something like this...

'you think you are liked but you aren't. you are popular now but they'll all forget you when you're gone. they just pretend to like you cause it suits them.'

TRUE friendship is hard to come by ...

hey skatergurl ... maybe you should bitch slap her with your words in private

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/30/2006 8:49 am

I would continue to ignore the hell outta her. I would either do that or I would sit her down and explain that she's not cool for taking the abuse.

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/30/2006 7:40 pm

I was neither popular nor unpopular. Just there. Had a lot of strengths and weaknesses too. In the end, we're all that geek underneath it all and popularity is fickle. Todays scenester is tomorrow's loser....

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

1/30/2006 8:30 pm

Well I started fighting back when I was in 2nd grade..I didn't care for the popularity thing..I wanted to show off for all the girls. All the way through high school. I look back at it..and all that fighting didn't solve a damn thing. If I ever get in a fight now..yeah it will solve something, cause I have very few reasons that I would ever do that again.
So jynxgurl knows how to get dusty huh?

21 posts
2/4/2006 2:57 pm

First and most importantly I want you to know that you will never defeat your enemies by applying negative force. Secondly, no matter wat the situation is rough broads are hot. Yes I am salivating (I only say broad if the chix a tough bitch)<--haha laughing at self....This obviously leads to my third point: CAN I JOIN YOUR FAN CLUB, PLEASE!?

gnr8nrg 45M

3/1/2006 7:41 am

Hope your O.K. Long time no post.

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