So now what do we do?  

rm_justanne2 53F
64 posts
8/28/2005 6:27 pm

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10/16/2006 10:58 am

So now what do we do?

You hook up, the chemistry is there. You both really want it. Now what?
Where do you take your new found friend? Do you go home? Or to a hotel?
It is a question I am curious about. Where do people go for sex, especially if they can't/won't take someone home? Share your experience people.

Kathleen1964 60M/56F

9/19/2005 8:10 pm

That's why God invented Massage Tables, the Beach, Moonlit Hilltops, Golf Courses at Night, and my Jacuzzi~~~

rm_justanne2 53F
22 posts
9/22/2005 5:37 pm

Jacuzzis are fine. Friends with jacuzzis are mighty fine.

rm_willharris58 66M

10/4/2005 5:17 pm

my opinion for what it is worth, is go to a motel. It's private, you can close the door, usually have clean sheets. You can shower together, play with each other, have multiple orgasms and many other delights. One warning though, turn the cell phone off.

rm_justanne2 53F
22 posts
10/4/2005 7:29 pm

Agreed, cell phones are not conducive to good sex.

rm_jimitb2 106M/106F
2 posts
10/10/2005 10:12 am

Just depends on exactly HOW hot you are for each other and how limber. Gettin in on while drivin down the road lookin for a place to park is a really hot way to go and increases the potential orgasm because of the semi-public excitement of it. Ever been bent over the hood of a '57 chevy and pumped for pleasure? Feet off the ground and a warm hood enhance the moment.

rm_jimitb2 106M/106F
2 posts
10/10/2005 10:14 am

By the way, for all jacuzzi lovers. For safer sex, DO NOT have sex while in the water. It's especially not good for the woman, it is one of the fastest ways to pick up an infection, not STD, and infection and one that will follow you for the rest of your lives. Just ask any Doctor.

heartspike81 36M
5 posts
10/17/2005 11:17 pm

The Car. The Car. The Car.

Especially if you have a nice big trunk with foldable rear-seats and a blanket. It can get quite comfy in there but unfortunately (unless you have a sun-roof, which I did not) it's hard to get into the woman-on-top pos without her breaking her back.

Apart from that: the great outdoors.
Not always that easy to find a nice and secluded spot when you're in a hurry but if you do, it's great. Even if it's not so secluded and you might get caught.

And if you're stuck in the city, go to the closest rest room. A restroom for handicapped people preferably, cause those are larger and you're more likely to not be disturbed in there.

(yes I know, I have quite some experience in the field. Most of it due to lack of better alternatives. Sometimes you just can't beat the own bed, regardless how small it is...)

rm_justanne2 53F
22 posts
10/18/2005 8:47 pm

Sounds like a lot of experience speaking there.
I haven't made out in a car since college.

heartspike81 36M
5 posts
10/19/2005 11:32 am

Yes, very much so. If you have no place (or not enough time) to go to you learn how to improvise but it's been fun.

With the right car it can be quite cozy. Also I love it when the heat of our bodies makes the water condensate on the windows when it's cold outside. *grins to himself*

JaggyKiltsDrain 44M
45 posts
10/10/2006 2:34 am

I haven't been to this place, but they do mention 3 big "private" rooms. You could use a room there. Of course, it would greatly depend on how well the party is going for everyone else, and if you do or don't want anyone else to join or view/watch.

I haven't attended a swinger's ball yet, but in my normal dating life, I've eithor taken them back to my place, or got busy in my pickup truck. I had a custom carptet kit installed in the back (bed of the truck), and I had a slightly taller bed shell with tinted windows and a rear window that would be locked from the inside or the outside. Plus the heavily tinted side windows could be slid open if we chose. And the rear window of the cab could slide open as well. To listen to music. Ahh, that was a great pickup!

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