Condoms and questions  

rm_justanne2 53F
64 posts
8/25/2005 9:55 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Condoms and questions


Adults should know the problems with STDs, right? And we are all adults. Have you ever met someone through AdultFriendFinder or elsewhere, someone you REALLY wanted sex with, only to have them refuse a condom?
To me, refusing the condom means refusing the sex, since they are not getting me without it. Great sex is just not worth my life, and I am suprised to encounter that attitude in a man in the age of AIDS.
Ladies, ever had this problem? What did you say?
My response was, no condom, no sex. Written in stone.
Guys, how can we make the condom more desirable for you?

loves2699 53M
3 posts
8/26/2005 9:38 am

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rm_manforrhire 44M

8/26/2005 9:59 am

To me, using a condom is kinda like shooting your tounge up with novacaine before a lobster buffet. They suck which is the major advantage of being in an exclusive relationship.

Other than that, it makes sex last a little longer, but the guy is working on mostly pressure. But, it is a MUST nowadays.

The men always get the short end of the stick.

There is a female condom, and I've been with girls who used them. It felt great to me, but not to her. She refused to wear it again.
I told her now you know what it's like to be a man nowadays.

And you wonder why we have to break out the fur mitten.


rm_justanne2 53F
22 posts
8/26/2005 4:22 pm

So maybe, the answer lies in taking turns using condoms? I have used the female condom before, didn't mind it at all. The male condoms cost less, and, <thinking back, I think that is why I use them exclusively.


languidtung 57M

9/19/2005 9:54 pm

If I really want to be with someone, a little bit of latex isn't going to stop me. Okay, so I'm lessening the sensations on one of the most sesitive portions of my body, but I still have my lips, tongue, fingers and all the rest of that precious human organ called skin; and then there is that other erogenous zone without which NOTHING would happen, nalely, the BRAIN...


JaggyKiltsDrain 44M
45 posts
10/21/2006 2:05 pm

    Quoting rm_manforrhire:
    To me, using a condom is kinda like shooting your tounge up with novacaine before a lobster buffet. They suck which is the major advantage of being in an exclusive relationship.

    Other than that, it makes sex last a little longer, but the guy is working on mostly pressure. But, it is a MUST nowadays.

    The men always get the short end of the stick.

    There is a female condom, and I've been with girls who used them. It felt great to me, but not to her. She refused to wear it again.
    I told her now you know what it's like to be a man nowadays.

    And you wonder why we have to break out the fur mitten.
He said it! I agree.

But what can help is experimenting with different condoms. THere are several different kinds out there. Even the same style but by a different manufacturer can make a big difference.
I like the ulta thin ones myself.

But I love being married in that I don't have to wear them at all!! yahoo!!


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