What The Fuck!!!!!  

rm_jr0428 43M
39 posts
8/15/2005 5:31 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What The Fuck!!!!!

Why is it when you decide to change how you will interact with a woman (I Know I'm generalizing, ladies! But cut me some slack till you read all of this!!) They suddenly get interested and PISSED!

My example!

I Started chatting with a young lady from this sight! Are chat's were phenomenal! No subject barred, just getting to know one another.(Well?! As well as you can online, I guess!) I was just a few chats! Then suddenly nothing! I send a couple how are you's! She seems to only reply( If at all!)When I'm offline!


So I stop sending messages for awhile( about a week or so!) Then I'm chatting with someone else, she pops online and sends a hello! I send her a hello back and tell her I'm just finishing up chatting with someone else, I'll chat with her in a few! Okay! Pops up! I finish my conversation!(All of 5mins!!) I send her a hello again! Nothing!? "Are you there?" Nothing!? So I leave my online up Thinking maybe she stepped away.

An hour later I get up and go to bed! Go to shut it down and check. Nothing!!

So the next day it shows she's online. I send a message! Nothing!!?? So I don't chat with her again for a couple of days. I don't send any messages! She send me one when I'm offline, Telling me she'll be on later! Okay!? When I'm on later, I see she's on and I send a hello!(Guess What!!) Nothing?!?!?

Today I go online and there is another message!?!?!? What the fuck!! I'm not a game player! And I don't expect to have games pulled on me! So I send her a message to inform her that I'm not sure what she's playing, if anything, And Explain to her that I'm starting to feel like a Creep and a Idiot!(I may be an Idiot at times. But I don't dig feeling like a creep!!) I send to her I have decided to take her name off my messenger and mail! I wish her well! The end right!


An explosive all caps message comes back within minutes!! She tells me the timing just happen to be wrong. That she's looking for a relationship and because I don't want anymore kids, she didn't want to waste her time and mine!( Mind you, these are things I told her when I first chatted with her! And She read it in my profile! DUH!!)Then she proceeds to throw a few jabs about game playing, like I'm up to something!!

I don't honor any of these with a response!( I won't throw fuel on a fire and burn my ass too!)
She ends with a "Be well"????

My Question is this:
Was I wrong on how I handle this?
And Has this happened to any of you?


MVGirl1 49F
92 posts
8/15/2005 7:23 pm

Hmmm, been there a few times, but not quite the same way. The way it usually happens with me, is that I get asked to chat off the AdultFriendFinder chat room we are in, and what thru yahoo, and I'm asked for some pics, which I send, after it's received, the guy immediately signs off! Like what was wrong with my pic? I'm not that ugly, in fact I've been a few guys from this site, most recently yesterdy afternoon, AND he wants to see me again! Granted, I am a BBW, but hell, I have the same needs/wants as a petite woman does. I'm no different. I'm very hesitant to send pics, unless the guy is ok with me being a BBW. JR, I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors. Too bad we live so far away. BTW, you are very handsome! Did I say that?

nights4us2hold 53F

8/15/2005 7:30 pm

Oh yes, many times a guy has put me on their im list and then nothing said after that. Even when I send a message, no return. There are many game players out there. It's true...you have to kiss alot of frogs to find the prince...and i'm still kissing. I hope things go better for the both of us soon someday.

rm_jr0428 43M
34 posts
8/17/2005 5:03 pm

Thank you MVgirl. I'm flattered! I like what your about! Even though I don't a face picture of you, if you'll forgive the slight pun, But Nice Rack! I do mean that!


rm_jr0428 43M
34 posts
8/17/2005 5:04 pm

Me too, Nights! Me too! Thanks!

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