To Cute To Be Lonely N Bored  

rm_jordan957 38F
18 posts
7/1/2005 9:32 am

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To Cute To Be Lonely N Bored

I'm not stuck on myself but I know I'm not ugly either, so what I'm trying to figure out is why men sometimes or well most all of them here do , when they meet a chic thats even 1/2 way cute they automatically asume they have a man and are players. Now how do the females react to that are we supposed to just be ok with it or what? We get bored too believe me I started my divorce and was doing the single thing everyone was always told I was taken so all the guys keep me on friend level and all the sluts get the t.l.c we need at times yea I know I should be glad I'm not a one night thing and I wont be that because thats not me , I play for keeps or I don't play at all. I think I'm going to go out one night as a slut and just see what happens who knows maybe I'll like it...... Doubt it though, go figure who ever thought I'd be looking for a man to get the attention I want and need , but everthing happens for a reason I've never been single untill now so I'm going to sit back take advantage of it and be free till my prince charming comes to sweep me off of my feet


rm_bigdogboy70 46M
3 posts
7/31/2005 8:01 pm

Hey Jordan, I really don't think you have a problem finding men. You have an overgrown network tree and the pick of the litter. The poor little pretty girl routine is kinda of week, you're better than that. But if you want edge expand your view, men with common interests and goals. Variety is the spice of life. After divorce, it's important to get back out there, without fear and cynicism (let prince charming find you). On a personal note, I took the I-44 turnpike @ 165mph on my hayabusa (what a rush and a celebration of life). If you ever need someone to ride with drop me a line. Keep your head up and keep riding. W


OralLuvr_Gentl27 38M
5 posts
8/7/2005 3:43 am

Never crossed my mind when I saw your profile. However, I believe it can be intimidating to approach a really attractive woman, especially in public, unless the woman expresses an interest in the person checking them out. I myself am pretty shy about meeting new women but my confidence seems to help me overcome.

I know what you are going through. I never thought I would be single again after being married almost 3 years, and it hurts, but I believe that it is only harmful to shield yourself from being open to falling in love again as it only lets your feelings bottle up inside. All things happen for good reason and believe I will grow stronger from my experience and hope the same of my ex-wife. She was much younger than myself and I was young and overly hopeful. I came to realize our desires did not match up and things fell apart.

You have many of those qualities. You're sexy and undoubtably intellegent as I can tell from your additional profile responses. I like a woman who not only needs the TLC, but is driven to be successful and adventurous at the same time. I had my own business at one time and would do it again when the time is right.

PS - My music tastes are too diverse to list and I love extreme sports and outdoor adventure.


OralLuvr_Gentl27 38M
5 posts
8/7/2005 3:52 am

Ride on! Its okay to be loved again.

Nobody is ever damaged goods and you shouldnt let that stereotype get in your way or cause you to lower your standards.

- The psychology guy (Honestly, its one of those subjects im really into. I should have become a doctor like my mother told me be.) LMAO!


FIN8055 40M
15 posts
10/27/2005 9:47 pm

YOUR RIGHTE EVERY ONE IS KISSING YOUR ASS! SORRY NOT MY WAY.I AM UGLY YOU CAN SEE THE PICTURE AND SEE FOR YOUR SELF. IT SEAMS LIKE YOU NEED TO GIT OUT.ENJOY OKC GO ON GIT OUT HEAR IT'S NOT THAT BAD.


rm_jordan957 38F
6 posts
9/30/2006 6:05 pm

Well Thanx OralLuvr I am into psych. also and you should e-mail me some time seriously....FIN look its not always about a persons looks trust me Ive been w/ a fine dude and he had a bad attitude also had a boytoy that wasnt as hot and he was alot more fun to be around


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