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Just a quick note on monogomy. I think monogomy goes against basic sexual instincts of both men and women. Truth is, that to rear a family, it is probably essential and thus the major reason for being monogomous. I am part of a child less couple and we both have longings outside our marraige sexually though we couldn't imagine life without each other. I have lived more out in real life than my wife, but I can sense her views opening up more to a more open relationship sexually. She prefers a "don't ask, don't tell" kind of attitude...but I would rather share it all. We have swung before briefly but she liked the women more than the men and just decided she would rather pursue a woman on her own than swing together.
I think that my view on monogomy is much different now than it was 15 years ago...on sexual monogomy. I love those sexual experience outside of the marraige..actually makes me appreciate the ones inside even more...and feel good that my wife can enjoy those as well.