couples and married men  

rm_joemmpdx1 58M
4 posts
5/15/2005 7:27 am

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couples and married men

I may be biased, but I think married men have an advantage for couples interested in adding a man to the mix. There arn't any issues about the married man wanting to pursue the woman outside of the least that is my perception...but maybe just because that is how I view it. I recognize married men have a disadvantage, mainly that we are not as free especially on weekends. Curious what couples think. Many give the sense that they feel it is dishonest for a married man to play without his partners is but then we could discuss a whole litany of topics related to monogomy...marriage in general...sexual fullfillment...

woody8775 47M
3 posts
5/15/2005 8:41 am

Like the subject, I am a married man with a wife that has medial problems and depression and is no longer interested in having sex, so i go looking outside my marrage to find sex. No she dosent know, she has enough to worrie about all ready and to try and take care of her issues. I dont want to add another one to it. Yes we still love each other and care for each other very much, it just the sex she has no desire for.Im not sure if married men have the advantage, i have been on here for over a yeah and yet to find anyone interested, once they find out im married its "see ya later" well some of us are just looking for fun times.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/15/2005 9:36 am

If men are married they bring along their wife, otherwise nothing happens we don't condone cheating or going behind partners backs, for m/f/m 3some we actually invite single males only no advantage it's actually a disadvantage for 3somes


cpl4xcitement04 46M/42F

5/15/2005 11:02 am

Well, we have a rule that we normally only play with married men when the wife knows. Now, if the guy chooses to not tell his wife and then lie to us about her knowing, that's another story that can't be helped. We don't play seperately but to be honest, just because a guy is married does not always prevent him from trying to get something going on the side even tho he knows we don't play seperately. There is always someone that will try. But it mostly depends on the type of people you surround yourself with. Hope this helps. Take care.

rm_joemmpdx1 58M
6 posts
5/16/2005 6:40 am

With my wife, she has said that she doesn't really want to know if I have sex with other people. She travels a fair amount and, I think, assumes that I am not monogomous, but doesn't want the details. Myself, I would prefer sharing them and hearing hers as well.

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