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ARE YOU GUILTY OF THIS?
ARE YOU GUILTY OF THIS?
Allot of you ask us "why does it seem so hard to hook up with REAL people on AdultFriendFinder", we'll after being on AdultFriendFinder for YEARS and going through the same frustration as most of you are now experiencing.
We have figured out what most of you doing wrong or not doing correctly. We put most of this in our profile when we finally figured most if not all of it out.
BTW you "newbies" got it good compared to how we started out there are more REAL or SERIOUS people on AdultFriendFinder now than its ever been. With that said:
ARE YOU GUILTY OF: Putting a check next to "MALE" in the "looking for" part of your profile (and wondering why "single males" are contacting (bothering) you, and your only looking for "women and couples".
ARE YOU GUILTY OF: LOOKING FOR INSTANT GRATIFICATION, Do you expect it to happen overnight, if so you have unrealistic expectations. My girl tells me stories of other females and couples that say "we've been on here 3 days and no action" WOW that’s crazy to expect results that quickand the funny thing about that is MOST of the newbies are just experimenting and not ready to meet anyway and believe me WE KNOW.
ARE YOU GUILTY OF: NOT READING THE ENTIRE PROFILE, Seems all people see are the pictures and that’s it, hell we were guilty of that too but soon found out all that glitters isn't gold besides that, they could be into things your NOT into but in order to know that YOU MUST READ, beside that reading is fundamental...LOL.
ARE YOU GUILTY OF: NO PICTURES ON YOUR PROFILE, Need I say more?
ARE YOU GUILTY OF: LOOKING TO GET A RAISE (ohh this is a good one). Are you looking to hook up with only the HOTTEST PEOPLE (visually) on AdultFriendFinder? I mean the pictures are HOTT, POPPIN, BANGIN, and their everything you are looking for and by all accounts to most people they would appear to be a 10+..... BUT!!! You are only a 6 or 7 at best. LETS KEEP IT REAL NOW, I know we all have to be self confident, have high self esteem and hold ourselves in high regard BUT COME ON, some of you need a reality check and when you don’t get a response from those HOTT...10+ people THAT EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE GETTING, So as my dad would say "stay in your lane kid, stay in your lane and get in where you fit in".
Notice our profile says, "Realest Couple on AdultFriendFinder" not the Hottest, and we are in NO WAY scraping the bottom of the barrel here on AdultFriendFinder, "we are staying in our lane".
For the record the HOTTEST people on AdultFriendFinder won't respond to your ad unless your one of the HOTTEST as well,BUT THEY WONT TELL YA THAT, THEY WONT TELL YA THAT.... LOL.