what do you think?  

rm_jcmoguy35 47M
11 posts
4/6/2005 1:13 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

what do you think?

OK, here's one that has me worried. Ive been chatting with a very pretty, very personable, and seemingly very horny young lady from here on the site. She and I have e-mailed a lot, and tried to set things up a couple of times. However, her fantasy is to come home from work and have both me and her boyfriend "hard and waiting" for her, stripped down and ready to tango.

Now, Ive never even so much as been naked in the same room as another guy while hard, but she has me very intrigued about being with her, with all the right statements that after we've done the threesome, she would do one-on-one as well...The boyfriend, Im told, is strictly hetro.

I told you that to ask you this: as a hetro guy, Im wildly uncomfortable about getting myself aroused in a room with another guy getting himself aroused, all before the girl arrives...I mean, the only way Im gonna get the big guy standing at attention without a female to at least LOOK at is to play with myself, and Im assuming the bf is the same way. How can he be "completely hetro", and yet not be the slightest bit put off about stroking it in a room with a guy he just met?

I know, I know, it seems like Im getting duped into having a guy wack off to me wacking off, but Ive talked to this lady on the phone, and she's no guy. So, what gives here? Im trying hard to be adventurous and live a little after a great number of years of boring sex followed by no sex due to my spouse's health...but this is on the bitter edge of what Im comfortable with. I really am turned on by this woman, to the point that Im willing to try...but in the back of my mind, it just doesnt seem right...

Thoughts? suggestions? Try to avoid just openly mocking me at this point. Its just good manners.


Lapkin4u 42F

4/6/2005 1:37 pm

You have to get it right in your mind before you ever try it.....you must be comfortable or it will be tense and not a good situation for anyone. I have done a couple threesomes with a girlfriend and a guy....I thought it would be uncomfortable seeing each other naked but it wasnt at all our focus was on the guy not each other...and no neither of us has ever been with a woman nor are we turned on by each other. We did not touch each other just focused on the job at hand which was to please him. why not try putting a porn on the tv and try getting aroused that way.....just remember you are doing this for her fantasy not yours so I doubt you'll pay much attention to him anyway....and it sounds like he wont be paying much attention to you either. Good Luck!


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/6/2005 3:39 pm

I hope she is on time and doesn't leave you guys hanging!


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
4/12/2005 6:01 am

i always go on the the if in doubt don't,never do any thing if your uncomfortable,surely for the first time,wouldn't going out for a drink together be better and if you all click then go for it


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