rm_itsdelight 58F
75 posts
1/20/2006 2:25 am

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I'm a simple person to know I'm not a material person its the little things that make me happy if your that special person in my life you will be spoiled I'm the type of person who remembers birthdays and send a card I remember mother and fathers day so you would not have to worry about getting those cards I send cards just because.what means more to me is if you take the time to know me and you think about me during your busy day and call just to say hello or take the time to maybe pick a flower to say this is for you these kind of things mean more I like romance I like feeling special but who doesn't.

daytyme4 47M

4/3/2006 9:54 am

First off let me say hope you find your happiness in life.

I was just like you once Remembered the birthday, day we met held the door open. on the rough days I made her dinner and a bubble bath with wine to help relax her. made a point ot each day tell her how much i loved her.
was thoughtful and thankful, and what did it get me she had an affair for a year behind my back then when I found out about the affair her response was I was every girls dream but when it comes down to it dreams are dreams and you were everything i wanted before i knew what i wanted I am leaving will be back on Wednesday to get my stuff.
It is nice to know that there are still people out there that appreciate the little things but be careful that the person you are sharing the little things with also cares.

rm_itsdelight replies on 4/3/2006 2:03 pm:
Thank you for your response to my question but you know what I don't have that closes with any one but so far no one wants to get to know you first the want to jump into bed first then get to know you maybe.I'm sorry that happened to you and I don't blame you for protecting your daughter Keep up the good work and I hope you find that special someone also I just want to love again and be loved again

daytyme4 47M

4/4/2006 6:23 am

I can tell you from a guys point of view if they try to get you in bed on the first date then they are not worth the time, a man that is trying to get to know you wouldn't even try on the first date.

rm_itsdelight replies on 4/4/2006 3:44 pm:
Well thank you for saying that it's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there

rm_itsdelight replies on 4/4/2006 3:44 pm:
Well thank you for saying that it's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there

RideHRDplayHRD 53M

8/7/2006 4:16 pm

This is just my opinion as many of us have, but please entertain it with an open mind. Rather than depicting a man or a woman, although two very different species in regards to your question, I’m going to refer to them both as people.
I feel for married people & people within a committed relationship they tend to take each other for granted after awhile, expecting particular things to just happen on their own as a routine sort of thing. To lay naked in bed after a shower on a hot day doesn’t necessarily mean it’s time to get it on, however, after some caressing and rubbing some lotion on his/her back, the chances are pretty good. People forget to keep things real & alive in their relationship or marriage. Simple things like flowers for no reason, a weekend getaway or a B&B somewhere that would prompt some sort of romantic interlude, a simple phone call or text message during the day to let them know your thinking of them or that simple touch to let them know your there can go a long way. Compliments, if people don’t feel good about themselves then they aren’t going to feel too good about being with other people. We’ve all seen miserable people and they’re usually alone, correct? Now granted, I wouldn’t confuse complementing with lying, so common sense is allowed & highly recommended. Last but not least communication, people don’t communicate. More often or not people take on extra curricular activities with someone because their significant other won’t perform some sort of sexual act or they aren’t as passionate as they used to be and they have no idea they’ve become such dead heads in the sack. So messing around is exciting & new and it’s usually sort term, but can be so devastation if caught. And that grass is no greener on that side of the fence than it is in our own back yard if people would take the time to care for it. Course it's not going to work for everyone.
I just feel if people aren’t hearing or getting positive attention or passionate sex on the home front they’re going to look else where bring those people to AdultFriendFinder. It’s funny though, I’ve known people who will go that extra mile for their howler back girls or their boy toys, but wouldn’t do the same to generate some sort of stimulation for their own significant other. We all want to wanted or needed in some way or another.
Again, this is just my opinion and I know I may have only touched on a very small percentage of reasons, but it’s something to think about.
Be safe and get it on like there is no tomorrow!!!

rm_uhhaa 76M

8/29/2006 12:26 pm

Sometimes people get married not realizing that they don't know one another at all, and one may turn out to be hard to love because He/She is hard to like. The two may not realize they are incompatable until after thewife gets preghant or a chil born.The unhappy one stays Through a sense of duty,( especially if children involved even though being almost mizerable.It is ossible for the unlikable one to be satisfied in this situation. The other (Wife or Husband)Feels a strong need for affection. I think it is not as much for the sex ack and orgasm as it is the feeling of closness which is missing. At this point every one of the opposite sex is viewed as a potential partner.Soner or later a person comes along that is attracted to the unhappy one and it starts.As in many things, the first time is the most difficult, and then exreiencing with someone the feeling that is missing,it becomes easier and esier to stray.AS long as the person is not caught,it is hard to stop. It's not that old Chesnut,"My wife doesn't understand me", it really SEEMS to be providing what's missing.We all need love,and find it(Or at least feel like we found it) in one way or the other. This is gettig much too long. Does it sound like I'm trying to be an amature psycologist? No!! I'm telling you something I know about,from experience. If you find yourself on either side of that situation you desperately need to get proffessiona advice, with out it and continuing on that path will lead to misery you cant imagine. We think of a "strayer" as a cheat,and think of any explanation as an 'Excuse",But--Weare not living in that persons mind and so we can't imagine what's living in there So if you know someone like that, don't judge until you know for certain his/her stste of mind. I've been very longwinde, but I don't know how else to make the poit and answer the lady so that she has a better grasp of the "Whys"

rm_itsdelight replies on 8/30/2006 1:43 am:
thank you for your point and now i do understand and you are so right sometimes i forget first that i'm divorced and that is the very reason why i am divorced i was the one who i guess lost interest and pushed him into the arms of someone else Thank you for bringing me back to the truth about my self.And your right i do have to look more deeply at why is this person contacting me and wanting to get together with me i'm that source to what they are missing in there marriages.

rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
9/5/2006 7:10 pm

There are lots of people who what just what you want...
be patient, stay awake and get ready to go through the numbers.
The real question is are we going to find them on this
friendly site? I had a friend who did...time will tell

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
9/5/2006 7:10 pm

And welcome to Blogland...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

WeaponsFighter 47M

11/5/2006 3:19 pm

I have to agree with the Goddess. I hope you find whatever it is you seek. It is an honor to meet you.

rm_itsdelight replies on 11/5/2006 4:20 pm:
thank you nice to meet you also

deuce048 61M

12/2/2006 9:46 pm

The "Ridehrdguy", I agree with him... He hit point on...And for "Uhah"s' comment, he's close.

rm_hemogram11 53M

1/8/2007 3:56 pm

Goddess, you sexy baby, fo real.

calor583 58M

3/1/2007 7:15 am

these days is all about paying the bills,the career,etc,we devote time to those things but not to getting to know each other,must profiles I read here is all about the booty call plus a lot people here have very high physical expectations for a partner so I say to you Delight good luck to you but this is a sex site plain and simple.

rm_itsdelight replies on 3/1/2007 7:57 am:
i know this is a sex site that is why my profile is written the way it is

calor583 58M

3/1/2007 7:50 pm

I must admit that your profile is refreshing thats why im reading your postings,i shared it with a friend and she remind me that it is possible to find love in unusual places,take care Delight.

rm_itsdelight replies on 3/1/2007 9:39 pm:
you know never know when love is going to hit i'd just like to know what it is i'm waiting for and what it look likes so i'd know and not miss it

calor583 58M

3/2/2007 10:28 am

I have little experience when it comes to love but I agree with you that we'll never know when is going to knock on our doors however I think that we can't predict how does it look or what it is I know that we first feel physically atracted to someone and then we get to know that person sometimes we like the inside package sometimes we dont but I know that whats inside matters most,sometimes we have to accept someones imperfections in order to make it work,have a nice weekend Delight.

rm_itsdelight replies on 3/2/2007 4:03 pm:
so true there is only one perfect man and he hasn't come back yet

calor583 58M

3/2/2007 10:10 pm

Maybe the perfect man will comeback or not so while you waiting enjoy yourself and don't close the doors to meeting other people who knows maybe you'll come across another perfect man,I like your subtle sense of humor,take care.

rm_itsdelight replies on 3/2/2007 10:27 pm:
i am having a good time with the dating and meeting people i still want the one special person

rm_old_doc1956 60M
4 posts
3/20/2007 10:36 pm

Being remembered is a special feeling, and costs little. I wish my being so involved with other things did not intrude on my ability to keep track of "the little things" that mean so much.

It is not that I do not care, I just am easily distracted.

Should you ever expect such intention I apologize today for future transgression. Simply remind me to check a calendar or a good swift kick in the behind, I shall make it up to you somehow.

rm_itsdelight replies on 6/20/2007 3:58 pm:
I'll remember that

hubbyforfunxl 47M

6/19/2007 7:01 pm

I sincerly hope that you find a real man who knows how to treat a woman right cause i think you deserve it your such a sweetheart to everyone even if you dont always agree with their opinions

rm_itsdelight replies on 6/20/2007 4:00 pm:
thank you it's sweet of you I hope things go the way you want

sinnabunny007 43F

7/21/2007 11:08 am

Delight..You and i seem to be on the same page, I to, am looking for love but can't seem to find it, or maybe I won't allow myself to see it.But I think its when just hearing the persons name, makes u all warm inside, then when they call ur heart races and every word u speak comes from smiling lips. But thats what its like when u first feel love, now shared love, is like a protecting embrace, when both parties have all of those feeling as one. When its right, u won't have to ask....but listen to me giving advice lol, I think i am in love now, but I am taking it easy with the man I am seeing, he is just like me, nursing a once broken heart and treading lightly. Wish me luck...and I wish you good luck.

rm_itsdelight replies on 7/23/2007 3:52 pm:
Thank you so much for you comments it gives me something to look for i guess i might be scared to let go to have those feelings again because my heart was hurt so bad from a man that i loved for 14years and i thought i was giving my best but i guess my best wasn't good enough that he had to cheat on me so the trust factor is very very low so when i go on dates i'm a watcher i don't mean to be but it can't be helped I'm glad for you and all the best to you


7/29/2007 9:43 am forget your Ladies B'day..or your anniversary...might as well hang it up... women hold thid very,near & dear to them...and why wait to send a card just on those days?..why not just send them a card during the week just saying : I was thinking of you!!!!....or send her flowers ( don't have to be rose's, they like any kind of flowers sent).to where they work...let them know you sending flowers to thier work place makes them the "envy" of every women there..just to know they have someone "who cares"!!!......I did this all the time..what I can't undrerstnd is ......."why the hell am I still single??""!!!!!!!!! lol

rm_itsdelight replies on 7/29/2007 4:46 pm:
well if you were closer you wouldn't be single

vakidd45 56M

12/10/2007 1:50 am

first of all you are right,most younger men dont have a clew as to what life is and there are some older ones that are lost beyond,well you know,however there are a few that know life is too short for games and we had to learn that the hard way.It is rare to find beauty,brains ant a woman that makes any man feel complete and you have that ability we talked once and although it was a while ago you are the class of this site much love keeping everything real

rm_itsdelight replies on 12/10/2007 2:52 am:
thank you for the compliment

monogamous4ever 73M

9/21/2008 2:48 am

Keep to your principles - stay safe - don't reach out too hastily for the first one to offer you what you want! Don't lower your standards, make sure he is as real as you are. On this site, transparency is of utmost importance - too many let's jump right into bed types here; but, don't fault them because that is what this site is for. There are some, like myself, that believe in old-time courtship - in hugs and caresses - in sharing wholesome things together first - then, when both have been satiated with honest love the rest will come. Unfortunately that takes time - be patient - he's out there. Take care and be safe. I feel your pain - I have it myself - but, sacrifices are needful if you want the "real thing" and not just a "booty call." Hoping you are successful in your hunt for "Mister right!"

rm_itsdelight replies on 9/21/2008 6:07 am:

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