Some musings about VD  

rm_imnotcartman 45M
191 posts
2/15/2006 7:03 am

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Some musings about VD

First off, sorry for the lack of postings lately ...I was in one of my funks and didn't feel like talking much. The irony is that I know that I usually feel better if I can post my rants in here. Either way, sorry!

Okay, VD (or "Valentine's Day" to women...)

I don't agree with the concept of having a specific day to celebrate "love". I think it's about as meaningful as black history month (only because we're not allowed to have a "white history month", not because I don't love black people. I do love black people)

I think that the reason we have this stupid "love" celebration is for one reason and one reason only:

Because men wouldn't do it by themselves if they had a choice.

I know that the above statement will piss off a lot of guys (get over it, fellas - if you were THAT wonderful, you wouldn't be looking for sex online...you'd be on the cover of some magazine, or doing a guest-spot on Oprah)

I did enjoy watching the "herd" at the local grocery. You know what I mean ...all the men, at the same time, "rushing" to get the perfect flowers and the perfect card. Perspiration beading down their brows ...standing in line like they're waiting for the executioner.

Man, I'm just sick, but I enjoy it

Ok, men. Here's a little tip for you. If your woman works too, do some housework when you get home. This will get you laid. Every time.

I've also come to realize another profound truth about men and women...

Men do not want women to change. Women do. From day one, men want acceptance. When they find a woman that likes them (read: tolerates them), they immediately want to keep her. Over the years, as she puts on weight, and ages, men no longer have that "perfect woman". Women on the other hand tend to look at men as "projects". They choose a project that is workable. After all, a woman who's never changed her own oil isn't going to rebuild a motor, but she IS likely to try to change her own wiper blades. The ladies start with a guy who's attractive (to them), has some great character traits, and a few "flaws". This is called molding.

Ironically, after a woman spends years "molding" her man into what she wants him to be, then she complains that he's "not the same man". Bitter irony.

Now, to be fair to the women ...men, when you first meet a woman, and you spend every waking second wining and dining her, making her feel like a princess, listening to her intently ...and then once you've got her, you stop all that ...don't be surprised when she's not seeing you in the same light.

(read: knight in shining armor transforms into court jester)

Ok, I'm done for now ...feeling my blood pressure going up ...must have coffee


Synn74 42F
1206 posts
2/15/2006 11:27 am

baby you tell em!!!!!

gifts don't mean nothing if the feelings aren't there...

i rather have the flowers or whatever in mid may vs the 14th

just prove to me you love me and i'm fine...

grant it it is the romantic part of me that loves vday...because i believe real romance it out there still



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Synn74 42F
1206 posts
2/15/2006 4:14 pm

believe me there's not!!!!!

still grinning



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