Best friend?  

rm_hotpockets20 52F
60 posts
6/29/2006 3:31 pm
Best friend?

What do you do when you think your best friend is using you?

My best friend is in a wheelchair. When I met her she was able to walk and we became close and eventually best friends. About a year ago she had surgery on her knee and since that time she has not been able to walk.

I go to see her like every other weekend and every time I go there she asks me for money. This has been going on for like 7 months now. When it first started I had money in the bank and I didn't mind helping her out a little.
But it's been 7 months now and my bank account is low from giving to her. My other friends think I should tell her no but it's so hard to say no when I see her and the condition she's in. I'm just not so sure that it hasn't gotten to the point that she's still asking me and getting help from somewhere else like Welfare or SSI. I can't imagine the government not helping someone that cannot help themselves.

digdug41 49M

6/30/2006 1:29 pm

fuck that shit I told ya she was playin you for a sucka so let her tough it out until her SSI comes through for her coz ya know its comin you've had confirmation of that

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adbacula 37M

7/8/2006 8:19 am

Someone once told me, "I don't lend money. It doesn't help people."

I was like, WTF? Afterwards, I found that to be true.

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