The Number One Reason for Divorce  

rm_hotmamaNcols 39F
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5/20/2006 11:28 pm

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5/22/2006 6:32 pm

The Number One Reason for Divorce

I just read someone's blog in which this man complained about his now sexless marriage after seven years. He confessed he wed her when she was 21 and she is 23 years his junior. He claims that she is suicidal and implied he didn't want to leave due to the sensitive nature of her depression. Oh, and he understands the impending divorce is near.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! The justification of sex on the side is rampant on this site!! LOL!!!

Ok, seriously. I'm no expert, but it sounds to me like she married for convenience and now realizes her mistake. They have no children. Usually after 5 years, she starts hinting around about reproduction unless there are issues in the marriage, or unless she is contemplating the thought of divorce in her miserably unhappy and suicidal state.

As for the sex or lack of, you can only pretend for so long. Women who marry for convenience usually aren't as sexually attracted to the man, as she is his wallet and his estate. Besides, an enormous amount of sex in the beginning is normal. It is normal for it to "taper" after a few years. It is highly immature to logically think it wouldn't after so long. What a child!!! I do not sympathize because they've had seven years to bond in other ways, to keep the relationship fresh. And if the relationship were as important as the sex he complains about not getting, he would have written about it and sought some counseling.

There's the issue. His priority is sex, her's her sanity.

Now, if it was me, and I had gone without sex for 6 months... I would equate some cheating was going on in the absence of marital sex. Or that one person has lost the urge to bang the hell out of the other and is no longer attracted. How clear is that picture? Does he honestly think she wants him anymore? Does she care that he is here looking? Probably not. She is probably hoping to gain as much evidence as possible to be rewarded handsomely when they do divorce. Or worse, she could be looking to justify an affair to throw in his face later. Ahh, marriage. The number one reason for divorce.

mewisemagic3 50M

5/21/2006 4:29 am

The age difference is what knocks me out. That poor child. I think a lot girls that age want a wedding day, not a marriage.

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/21/2006 8:27 am

You are soooooooo right here in this one either do what you can to save the marriage or leave dose not take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. See you JD

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