The Case of the Disappearing Post  

rm_hotmamaNcols 39F
460 posts
4/18/2006 12:41 pm

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4/21/2006 4:36 pm

The Case of the Disappearing Post

I wrote a post entitled "You Asked For It" in which I PIMPED out a few people. Two of these individuals clearly asked to be pimped out. Please see their posts if you remember. They are on the top male bloggers list. And one person, I pimped out to fulfill a wish of 2 minutes of fame.

Apparently AdultFriendFinder felt this was in bad taste and removed that post. I'm unsure of the details, but I must have offended someone enough to receive a complaint. I didn't think I would have offended anyone, and believe me, it was all in good fun and not meant to hurt or offend. It was not vulgar(no more vulgar than anyone else's blog) and quite complimentary to the men I "pimped out".

So, WHAT'S THE FREAKIN PROBLEM HERE FOLKS? I thought they would appreciate the new flow of readers to their profiles and blogs... but I find that I'm almost apologizing....

Seeya in a few days, when the nausea disappears too.

elbman 41M  
2566 posts
4/18/2006 1:24 pm

You know "Pimpin ain't Easy"......

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/19/2006 4:51 pm:
LOL! I know!! even if they "ASKED for it"!!!

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
4/18/2006 1:29 pm

LOL I've only ever had one post that I've wrote not be accepted by AdultFriendFinder. There was a time I kept seeing this picture over and over again on the actively watched blog slots. I couldn't tell if the picture was meant to be a hairy backside or a picture of a cleavage, either way the picture didn't appeal so I never bothered to check who the blog belonged to. However I continued to see the picture crop up again and again on the slots for 2 months and my curiosity got the better of me. I then went on and wrote a blog about it asking the question who shares a picture of what looks like a hairy arse, and who are these people that are viewing it? I didn't bother to name names just in the off chance that the person came to read my blog, I didn't want to upset anyone. I was only having a laugh and the only reason I wrote it was because I knew they didn't read my blog anyway. However the post wasn't accepted and I didn't bother resubmitting it. I then went on to write about something entirely different for the next post and guess who commented. Usually I'm not that lucky, usually if I do something daft like that I get caught red handed but somehow the gremlins of AdultFriendFinder saved me. I'd hate to imagine the drama that would have been caused if the post had been accepted.

Anyway my advice just resubmit the post, if the person checking it has a sense of humour it will be accepted.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/19/2006 4:54 pm:
Did you get a chance to see it? You would have loved it!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
4/18/2006 1:34 pm

better the post to disapear rather than your whole life on here

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/19/2006 4:55 pm:
Very true papy, very true..

Jeepidiot 42M

4/18/2006 3:03 pm

And here I thought you had just removed the post because of my ambiguously gay comment.

I honestly can't see how anyone could have been offended by that unless someone complained that they weren't included in the list. Perhaps AdultFriendFinder felt it violated the rule of no personal ads but I guess all the ones that give phone numbers and say "I'm looking for a fuck tonight" are okay.

I really don't think much of the AdultFriendFinder staff that checks blogs or allows photos. Just the other day I saw an account with a photo taken straight from the AdultFriendFinder site and it was allowed.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/19/2006 4:57 pm:
I think you have to be on the TOP BLOGGERS LIST to be allowed special privileges. All good though, at least they didn't remove my account.

p33c3y0 42M

4/19/2006 12:33 pm

i think you need to apply the incompentency over maliciousness rule here. ten bucks says you try the same in a couple of days ... it goes through ...

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/19/2006 4:59 pm:
You are right, I've heard about their screening and customer service department.

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
4/20/2006 12:44 am

No I missed it, as usual my timing sucks. Ok this is the wrong place to make that kind of statement. When will I learn?

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/20/2006 11:02 am:
You were my newest "ho":
Sweet, young, and an intellect. You'll have a good time with this one. But ladies.. he's new. He needs a gentle, yet mind blowing first time, although he will probably devour you alive. You know what they say about the quiet ones....

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
4/20/2006 9:38 pm

I was going to comment on your newest blog but now i forgot what I was going to say. Laughter is good, but damn so is oxygen to the brain. Help! Need to breathe.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/21/2006 7:28 am:
I'm glad you liked it. I think you would have DIED when you saw your photo posted!

fantasylover_05 62M

4/21/2006 8:51 am


I missed it.. being out of town and all... I am very very sorry Hotmama!!

I don't know what happened nor why... I just hope you don't let it bother you and BLOG ON!!

I can only assure you it was not me!!! I am only sorry I apparently missed it... and just so you know.. I am FLATTERED you would do something like it for me!! And there isn't likely much you could say to offend me... so it weren't me Beautiful!!!

Thanks sooo much for the thought anyway!

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 4/21/2006 4:42 pm:
hey fantasy,
I know it wasn't you. not a big deal. over it.

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