Subliminal Message In a Bottle  

rm_hotmamaNcols 39F
460 posts
5/24/2006 9:54 am

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Subliminal Message In a Bottle


What does it mean when an uninvited person of the opposite sex comes over ALONE with a couple of bottles of your favorite liquor? I'm no dumb ass. He wants to fuck. He wants to fuck so bad he's willing to get someone drunk. Never mind that it would never happen if she were sober, maybe things will change after a liter or two? WTF? Unfortunately, this must work on some women or the men wouldn't try it.

Is there a handbook that tells these guys what to do to get some even when told no? The hand book must read:

Alcohol
If ingested in high doses by target, it temporarily:
results in poor decision making and motor skills, relieves pain, boosts confidence, reduces inhibitions, results in blackouts or blanks in memory, make her easy and guarantees access to every orifice of her body.

Stop reading the same handbook!! People in bars try that shit too. And we all KNOW how those scenarios end.


im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
5/24/2006 12:30 pm

Hmm I've never tried that technique. All I've ever done when I have been with company that is a little bit not sober is made sure they got home ok by being the one that took them home. I don't care how much someone is flirting with me when they have been drinking I will not go down that route. I figure if they are into me that much they will still be interested in the morning once they have sobered up some, if not I will be shit out of luck. No biggie. Maybe if we have been flirting back and forth with one another for a few weeks or months or something and drink has been used to get some dutch courage so to speak then I might take a different view on it. One thing is for sure I'd have to know for certain that she would still be interested sober.

I don't drink much now, but when I drank more often in my late teens I never really noticed much difference in my behaviour and it didn't matter how much I drank either. As I drank I kept hoping that their might be a change. But alcohol never broke down my inhibitions, it didn't make me more confident, didn't make me any funnier, and it didn't make me more aggressive. So drinking didn't really didn't have a positive or a negative effect on me except for that funky leg syndrom when the legs were a little bit drunk especially if I was drinking some weird concoction on the continent where the alcohol went to the feet before the head. Trying to stand up after a few of those drinks when you had been sitting down oblivious to your drunkedness was always fun.

Seriously though guys who use alcohol to get women used to piss me off but its even worse now that so many guys are willing to use the date drug to get what they want. Women should always buy their own drinks and guard it with their life. I've actually physically manhandled a girl onto the dancefloor on one occasion just to warn her not to take her drink because I saw something go into it. That behaviour is really unusual for me, I never volunteer to dance, quite simply because I can't. I would love to learn the salsa or the tango someday, and perhaps with the right partner I still might but I until that day happens I usually avoid dancing at all costs because I have no rhythm whatsoever and just look like a fool. I could have handled it differently but the guy was drunk and a little bit aggressive with it all night so manhandling him out of the premises was not what I considered a good idea. I figured that if focused on her and she was aware of it and she could guard her drinks then noone else would be his victim that night and hopefully not any other night for that matter.

I consider guys that use alcohol or drugs to get what they want to be assholes, no other word for it.


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:09 pm:
I have another word..... DESPERATE!!!

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 6:00 pm:
Speaking of dancing: Tango, Salsa, and the Cha cha had to be learned at an early age. In my mother's culture, it is necessary to have some dance talent with all the damn parties. You know, there is a party for everyone and everything so long as the food is prepared and the music is on.

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
5/24/2006 12:30 pm

Fuck I wrote an essay! Sorry about that LOL


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:12 pm:
Quite alright by me... I like it when I can evoke a response from you. Much better than silence.

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/24/2006 12:51 pm

Funny you should write that today. Yesterday I went to my favorite restaurant/bar (they have a killer cooked oyster plater) There was a sign above the bar that read "BEER helping ugly people get laid for 186 years"

Personally I would rather have sex with a woman that was not drunk. You get a much better response and the experience is real and from the heart. And it kind of sucks when the throw up on you, yikes!!! Later girl JD


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:16 pm:
Let's face it, whether ugly or not, alcohol has helped lots of yokes get banged... and fucked in the end!!

elbman 41M  
2566 posts
5/24/2006 2:06 pm

Drunk Chicks Rule!

Not really; but I know quite a few guys that think that way.


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:18 pm:
Drunk Girls Suck (everyone and everything)!!!! LOL!!!!

slimcountryboy2 38M
46 posts
5/24/2006 2:24 pm

You're right... The alcohol, over at your place... There's no doubt about what he was gunning for To his credit though, he can't have bad taste if he comes knocking on your door, right?
So getting a girl drunk (in the manner you spoke of) usually doesn't end with a positive result?? Okay, I'm taking notes
The alcohol thing does work on some women, from what I've heard anyway... But I guess it depends on the people involved and what they want before the potion is consumed.
I dont go out to bars much, and I don't drink much (or as much as I should I guess). I have not been with a large amount of women ... quite a shocker, I know....

Maybe you can tell me what your looking for so I have an idea of what I should say, and what I should never say to a woman. Let alone what I should or should not do.

I guess there really isn't a response to that... What you are looking for may be totally different from anyone else, and is by no means a direct reflection of how another woman, or women would think.
No response neccessary I guess, I thought I would pick your brain a little.... I like to hear what you have to say... It's usually one of the few bright points in my day.


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:37 pm:
If I were looking, I'd want someone with a minimum of : deep rooted morals, an urgency to tell the truth, intelligence, empathy, and as mule headed as I am when he is right. Oh, and there must be chemistry.
All of these qualities are ones I respect, not necessarily ones I find attractive at all times. As for dating, I expected to be courted. I was a MORON for hoping men still did that. Equal rights = quid pro quo relationships in today's society. Kinda sucks.....

You are right. I can't speak for every woman. Some women like to get drunk and end up used. To each their own. Still, I think you know by now I can't keep my mouth shut when I'm disgusted about something.

Jeepidiot 42M

5/24/2006 2:42 pm

You know what a "Bar Skank" is don't ya? It's the chick that you see at the bar everytime you go there. She's the one that knows everyone there and is always the first to get out there and start dancing to the music. She's the reason that guys go to a bar. All it takes is a few drinks in her and she's ready to go home with you.

Oh and blame Drunk Sorority Chicks also. If getting a girl drunk didn't work then guys wouldn't try it.

I don't frequent bars all that much and if I do I don't expect to go home with any of the women there. I'd personally want her to want to be with me without the assistance of alcohol and of course all it takes is for that girl to sober up and call the cops and the guy can find himself in an orange jumpsuit very quick.


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/24/2006 4:45 pm:
True, Very true. I think when people are just trying to have fun, they lose sight of "responsibility". All it takes is a question to self: "What if I/she/he wouldn't want this if I/she/he were sober?" If you fail to think, the cards dealt HAVE to play. A sober person knows when to FOLD and call it a night.

p33c3y0 42M

5/24/2006 7:06 pm

with sex?


slimcountryboy2 38M
46 posts
5/25/2006 3:47 pm

I think I fit all criteria, except for chemistry... That is, if you were looking...
Men still do court... They just dont like to... It's work, and we are lazy... Or at least, I am... Courting is very hard to do if you feel you will never attain your goal of winning a girls heart.
That's why some men dont try really hard to get in touch with hot girls who call them... Because they aren't "man" enough to step up
You don't want to lose in the courting game... If you put alot into it, you can really end up with a broken heart... I dont have much to put into it now...
Yeah, I'm cutting on myself But it's for your amusement.


out_for_a_ride 35M

5/26/2006 2:05 am

lol....i think we all know by now you can't keep your mouth shut when disgusted by something (unless you're disgusted by "it", at which point you probably could..*chuckles*..sorry..) which is why we keep coming back for more! tell it like it is!!!! (the quid pro quo reply was hysterical by the way, it's so true...and not just from a guys perspective)

(line from family guy where cleveland and loretta are off screen in their bedroom)
cleveland: "ow ow ow ow, whens it gonna be my turrrn? ow ow"


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