whats good for the gander is not good for the goose?  

rm_hotass013 44F
6 posts
12/11/2005 4:44 pm

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whats good for the gander is not good for the goose?

I got on this site to have fun and to make up for major lost time in my bed. I am a nympho... I can not and will not get enough sex or love making. Well, my man read my ad, needless to say, he flipped the fuck out. He tried to hide it for a few days, but couldn't, I saw it all over his face, but wanted him to come out and say something like I did when I saw his ad. Last night I got it out of him, he told me that he was not physically attracted to me, because of what he read in my ad. I had to catch myself, cause I got the site from him. On top of that, He did not mention anything in his ad about being attached, and stated that he is very oral and talented with his tongue(which he is), now what type of shit is that. I wonder how would he feel if I put in my add that I love to suck dick(I do love sucking his dick)(go back and read my ad) I chose not to put in a pic when I first signed up due to freaks, weirdos, and stalker, but when I found and read his ad, I got pissed again and put in some(hope that they are pleasing to u guys eyes). Ladies and gentlemen, tell me, what would u do... if ur better half have sex with u only once a week or less, but goes out the majority of the time. Everytime u ask for sum, u get the infamous "can u wait, I am soo tired" but either his/her phone rings, and he/she is out or they just continue to sleep hoping that u will go to sleep and forget about how horny u r.----------------------------- What would u do if u found ur better half on a site such as this one, looking for a "playmate" when u have been dedicated to em and second nature faithful, willing and able to do any and everything under the sun, moon, stars, and galaxies with, for, and to him. -------------------What would u do if ur man or girl is constantly speaking to and visiting the opposite sex, especially one that u know he/she has had an intimate relationship with. What would u do.... how would u deal? --------------------------------It takes me back to the title, why is it like that...whats good for the gander is not always good for the goose. We(male and female) all bleed the same, hurt the same, love the same(some harder than others), we do a lot the same, so why is it considered good for the man to cheat and u give the explanation he is just being a man, but when the woman do it, she just aint rite. Why is that? We have needs and wants to. We want to be hugged and kissed, sometimes, just as u men love the feeling of true sugar walls, whether its licking and/or hittin it as well as gettin mouth(head). we(female) love the feeling of a true orgasim from GOOD dick and a MIGHTY LONGLASTING tounge. I must say, being on this site has stepped my game up a little bit when it comes to sex. I was truly naive to how much is out there. This is a whole nother world that has been opened up its door to me and begging for me to come on,,,,And I must say, I am very tempted to enter, @ my on descrestion of course. U guys out there, stay real and keep it that way. I will be on the site checking my email periodially, so please, be patient. And also, being a standard member, I am not able to email and wink @ everyone the try to contact me, sorry. Please, feel free to respond to my ?.

Love always,


Plano69 54M

12/14/2005 2:45 pm

Well, welcome to Blogland, and hope you find something here to make you happy! I think you'll like it here...

marcusgerald 43M

12/17/2005 7:28 pm

I think my story is a lot longer than yours. So I'll just say this you're not the only one it happens on both sides. The only way I'm getting through my situation is close up in a room and play guitar about eight to ten hours a day and some video games. Since I work mostly at night I don't think about it much. I come to this site and check out the women. Other than that I close myself away from everything. Most of what I learned about pleasing a woman is slipping away. I still can cook my ass off. Now that's cool.

2 posts
12/18/2005 10:08 am

i love your story.please holla at me,i think we can give each other what we need.let's do this!

rm_bladebl 60M
16 posts
12/20/2005 12:40 am

First of all,let me say that we are all facing some kind of storm in our lives.It might not be a Katrina,but sometimes the inner turmoil blows just as hard.From all the advice that you are going to recieve,the decision to be made is going to be made by you.That's right,by you and whatever choice you make you will have to live with it.Your problem is not that unusual in the fact that there are a million other people on this sight facing the same problem,some to a greater degree than others,but sometimes we have to understand that no matter what you do,you can only do what is best for you and your well-being.Am I suggesting that you go and screw everybody that you see?Heaven forbid!!.Nor am I suggesting that you continue to be ignored and pushed to the side.A lot of men who read this comment are not going to agree with me,but the truth is that men can be very dumb,uncaring,and unfeeling.To play like you're sleep,to keep from handling your business is a crime,BUT!!!I have to play the devil's advocate also.....ARE YOU DOING ANYTHING TO MAKE HIM GO TO SLEEP ON YOU???Maybe not,but great lovemaking starts before you get in the bed,it is a mind thing and depending on what happens during the day can adversely affect what he does,or does not do.He is a embicile to think that he can go on this site and do what he wants,and yet when he finds out that you are here also,he becomes frigid and cold.If he hasn't learned that women are emotional and they do things geared to their hearts,then maybe you do need to find someone else,because frankly I don't see it getting better,I suppose that it will get worse.No one,and I mean no one has the right to keep someone miserable,unhappy,and rejected.Life is too short for that,and maybe you can cut your losses while it's still time.There is no tongue,dick,breasts,clit,or anything else worth someone being unhappy,you can always find MORE!!If it is a relationship worth having,then it's worth working at.I saw your pics and frankly he must be blind,but I've lived lond enough to know that it ain't allways about ass,tits,and face.So my dear,I truly hope that you all can come to a happy medium,if not,chunk it up as a life lesson and move the hell on!!!Take care!!

2 posts
12/20/2005 9:33 am

please get at me at AdultFriendFinder's holla

aaron6491 35M

10/30/2006 5:43 am

well hello there interesting one, i am really new to this site and would like to see if one of these upcoming days you would like to meet up or whatever. if that sounds like something that you might be interested in then the best way to respond and get in contact with me would be through my myspace account.....i also have a couple of pics on there, use 'aaron i' for the search name

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