What do you do to keep your relationship strong...?  

rm_hot_pink2006 43F
7 posts
6/4/2006 2:59 pm

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What do you do to keep your relationship strong...?

Hello Everybody!

I have a question for you...what do you do to keep your relationship strong?

I'm not necessarily speaking in terms of drama, but what comes to mind when you want to keep your relationship strong and healthy.

You are probably thinking that I may need some advice, but I'm just curious. I myself have figured out my own plan. Some may call me crazy, but we have been together for 4 1/2 years and plan to get married. We have an open relationship. My significant other, would go out and meet woman. He would then come home and let me know. I always told him, "if something is going to happen between the 2 of you, please let me know first and USE A CONDOM!!!". Out of the 4 1/2 years we have been together there had been 3 others. NO PROBLEMS!!

I even find it exciting to hear what they do together...! Turns me on every time. I know that there are many couples out there and I know that you don't condone in my decision. That's why I want to know what do you do...

FineButLonely2 41M

6/4/2006 6:19 pm

I think, first of of all you have to be friends. Everything else, like communication, respect, loyalty, attraction, sex and eveything else just follows.

rm_Fun_Lvr692 49M/47F

6/21/2006 5:14 pm

our rules are:

No one the other knows unless explict OK is granted
not in our house or our cars
must use condoms
don't ask, don't tell
when asked, tell the truth

we have only been married for 1 year, dating/living togehter for 2 years...so far we keep growing closer and stronger together

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