Why are some men so damn hard to read???  

rm_hotNnawty 47F
17 posts
10/7/2005 3:06 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why are some men so damn hard to read???

Im just plainly throwing this out there to whomever may have any insight for me. I am normally a very good judge of charactor..and I can usually read a guy pretty well. My problem is that I have found one that at one minute I think I have him figured out and the next I have no absolute fricken idea(smile). That isnt a bad thing neccissarily..just confuses me a bit...and that is easy enough for me! He hates that he cant read me...drives him nuts...loves communication (as do I ). He always likes to hear what I am thinking and feeling...but is not so clear as to his. We have a certain understanding, because of our situations, but I still feel the need to know the silly things...like.....Do I turn him on? Am I enough for him? Does he like me (not love, just like)? HELP! He is a great guy, funny and fun to be with, great lover....do I just stop being the "over thinker" and enjoy....Or do I just come right out and ask? Im afraid that If I ask...I will hear what I dont want to hear. Where are those balls when you need them (smile)! SO...what do you think?

realmom2 58M/50F

10/7/2005 5:55 pm

If he's just a "friend with benefits", don't ask, just enjoy. If your looking for something more meaningful, keep working him, better to figure him out now, instead of finding out when it's too late. But, keep yourself a bit of a mystery, exposing yourself too soon, could open up your weaknesses to him. Good luck, and be careful.

Tarzan9111 58M

10/7/2005 6:00 pm

Hi Hotnnawty,

See my blog on "Advices for seriously single women" posted 10/7. The topic refers to women who are seeking a relationshipship rather than those already comitted who are just seeking a good time.

My advices here are ask him. If he doesn't tell you clearly and it really bothers you: get a new guy. Communication is an essential part of any relationship. Note that you may have to ask him repeatedly for a bit. You could probably find a new guy too: you have cute eyes.

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