rm_harrypendel 50M
4 posts
8/3/2005 9:26 am

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I haven't had much success on AdultFriendFinder so far, so I thought I'd try a BLOG. I'm curious, what are other peoples' experiences? I'm a standard member and I'm especially interested in hearing from Gold and Silver members. Does a Gold or Silver membership make a difference or are there other things I can do to meet people here? Perhaps you've read my profile? What caught your interest? What turned you off? Perhaps you've met some people through AdultFriendFinder? How did you meet? Using the search function, in a chat room, something else? Did you hook up? Did it work out?

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
8/3/2005 9:50 am

A silver member makes all the difference as you can take an active role in your search and communication. Only emails will likely get a ladie's attention. Take your time ...

... some additional advice can be found in my blog entry

Men of AdultFriendFinder ... dial 911

it is a bit of a rant ... but ignoring the negativity,
you may find some useful advice. Take note of the reaction
of the women in their comments.

good luck


f7south 50M

8/3/2005 9:56 am

Just like you I had no success until I went gold (imagine that). Being able to initiate contact instead of waiting around for a response is much better. But be prepared for some rejection; and the ladies can be rude at times if they really don't want to chat. I did hook up with a few ladies; one was great, 4 we just chatted, and one I wanted to forget. Putting a picture on your profile helps alot; seems to seperate those who just want get dirty, and those who are really sincere. Good luck and keep it real.

rm_Lilith4711 40F
24 posts
8/3/2005 12:29 pm

First off, I agree with Frnds4Play...your hook line is kinda a turn off. I checked out your profile, and personally I like to see some of the additional questions answered. Your music and movie tastes can be very revealing about your personality and whether I think we'll get along. I've emailed people based solely on those quesions alone. And a picture always helps. If you look like a really fun person in your pic, I'm more likely to meet you.

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