Persistence the double edge sword  

rm_hardbody455 56M
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5/16/2006 5:50 pm

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2/2/2007 5:28 pm

Persistence the double edge sword

Persistence is good initially in any type relationship or in this instance emailing as long as you don’t seem like a stalker. You can be open yet interested and concerned. Fortunately most of us do have the better qualities of initial persistence particularly hiding behind a computer screen. Persistence in the meeting or small r relationship can blow up in your face. Unfortunately I just recently experienced from the other side of persistence to connect with someone in a mutual relationship. I was blinded by my own persistence to connect and form some minor bond that I didn’t see the other person (lets say handle XXX) needed a significant amount of space. XXX wanted an extremely loose relationship with just certain connections. So in my persistence to connect I fear I lost a truly amazing person. The bond with XXX could have been monumental for both of us but now I can only speculate what might have been. So beware of persistence the double edge sword.

clitalicious67 49F

5/29/2006 1:38 pm

This was a good post...sometimes we need to step back and re-evaluate how to get the things we want/desire...

rm_hardbody455 56M
4 posts
5/29/2006 6:03 pm

Thanks for the comment. Wish I would have re-evaluted sooner or at least anticipated the wall with the stop sign!!

rm_slutkittie 46F

7/1/2006 10:27 pm

things are so tenuoius in this life. sometimes we just need to keep things close to the chest,
our own.

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