soon to be free from her  

rm_happydaddy33 43M
6 posts
3/21/2006 11:28 pm

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12/21/2006 3:40 am

soon to be free from her

i dont know if anyone reads this but it is hard for me to tell anyone about things that go on in my life. i know i will be divorced before year is out. but i think it is for the best. what worrys me most is my boys. i fought with my soon to be ex wife last night. which ended up wakeing up my oldest son. which really pissed me off.
i really dont know what to do anymore. i guess the best news is that she is going away for 2 months the bad news is my boys are going with her. her sister is paying for her to go to germany.

NawtieBBWwantsit 45F
70 posts
3/22/2006 12:59 am

Why are you letting her take the children out of the country? Do you not realize thats the best way to lose any chance of joint custody in the future? If you 2 are seperated, you have rights. If she is still living with you, You Have MORE rights. Some daddies make the best sole parents.

Some of my best male friends are single parents. One resource to look at is deltabravo dotnet. I wouldnt give up so easy and just assume she would be the better parent. i believe children need both parents in life. Joint custody is the way to go. Good luck and keep your head up.

SpeshandCutez 50F/60F

3/22/2006 1:51 am

I know your pain, i have three sons that love with their father and he has done nothing but hurt me,

but you will miss your kids.

Big hugs someone cares.

rm_jeffrey69x2 52M

4/17/2006 4:58 am

Listen here Happy,
I am a single parent and I am the father. I have had full custody for over 12 years now. You need to get your own lawyer and listen to him. It did me a world of good in the legal realm. Don't fight with her. Concentrate on the children. Don't leave your home, let her leave. These things all came from a savy lawyer. Keep a notebook and make notes on what goes on. Talk to a lawyer about her taking the children to Germany.
More over and what I would really want to tell you is this. After she left, things got so much easier. I had one less child to take care of. Embrace your children. Think ahead. Don't poisen them. They will remember what is said and done. Do what you can, put some money away on the side. Hang in there and remember what you are doing. Talk to a friend or just keep posting here. You need first to take care of yourself. You can't take care of anyone else unless you are first taken care of. Don't burn yoursefl up, bra, there is life in front of you.

rm_Latinlady58 58F

8/1/2006 2:22 pm

you are doing the best you can, and i know it is hard to lose your kids, because they leave with her. but that is why many men stay and put up with it,for the kids or because it is cheaper to keep her.i believe in being happy, so u could still see them,always be there for them when u can the boys that is, good luck

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