Lack of it.......  

rm_gorilla062 49M
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5/31/2006 6:43 am

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6/6/2006 10:35 am

Lack of it.......

Well I guess I made a mistake. I tried to rekindle a relationship based on the promise that things would be different this time.... I know we have all heard that one.
The biggest problem was lack of sex drive on her part and too much on mine.... I guess my expectations are too high for a permanent mate.
I have always had diffculty understanding why after a period of time with one person it goes stale... I had tried to do different things to spice it up... some she was never open to. Still it went bad.
I love sex.. I love making a woman feel great. I enjoy everything I have experienced and want more....
What thinks all of you... is there something wrong with me? Or is it normal to want these things?

cookiequeen1000 53F

5/31/2006 4:10 pm

Did the two of you negotiate frequency at all? Some people just don't have a high drive. Might have just been mismatched from the start. Did you initially think/hope her drive would increase because she was with you? What are your sexual expectations?

Now going back for a second time??? That, to me, is silly. If the milk's bad you don't put it back in the frig thinking, "well, maybe tomorrow..."

Don't see that its wrong to want any of what you said you wanted and don't see anything wrong with you either, so far.

rm_gorilla062 replies on 6/1/2006 6:34 am:
It really started out quite well... very many things alike; including drive but something changed and I cannot figure it out. Does pre-menopause start this way?

cookiequeen1000 53F

6/6/2006 4:55 am

Could be a menopause thing - I'm not there yet, so don't know for sure.

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