JUST PONDERING..............  

rm_gergle775 51M
53 posts
7/28/2006 12:47 pm

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JUST PONDERING..............

Maturity... what is it truly? I was once told a few years back by a Domineering, Independent woman that men "don't know shit until they're 40"...

Well, I thought about that comment, reflected, pondered, wondered, dis-regarded, re-regarded, slept on it, slept with it... I came to the conclusion that SHE WAS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! With me still being in my 30's at the time, it gave me a few more years to "get my shit together"...

Years later, I am over 40. I did live by that 'credo' for a few years, counting away the days until I had to "grow-up". 40 hit and I accepted the challenge. I slowed my extracurricular activities, dried myself out, went 'cold-turkey' got responsible all to benefit and enhance my "Domestic Role" as a 'turn-key' family man. And it was good........

Now by 'growing up', I had to put the childish things (ways) away... and I did just that... I was the "good husband", loving father to my step children, respectable and forth-rite.

As I'm just adjusting to this 'new me', getting the gist of it & conforming nicely, I GET BLIND-SIDED BY "THE LOVE OF MY LIFE".... I REVEALED THE CUNT HAS BEEN FUCKING A WORKMATE FOR MONTHS!!!

Long story short, She's no longer a part of me... I still have her kids in my life, so I wasn't totally stolen blind...

POINT OF THIS 'OPEN-MINDEDNESS'... I have disregarded and regressed from the "40 year old" theory! I am now living my life at full-speed & fun-filled life indefinitely! I'm aiming more towards 50 now! After my "mature" spouse mind-fucked me, she threw the whole 'maturity theory' out the window...

What do you think people? When/Where is a person obligated to become Mature? What IS Maturity? Do we HAVE TO become 'Mature' to be considered Adult & 'Grown up'? Is my regression warranted?

Just because I threw that theory out the window, I am still a man of responsibility... I simply allow myself a smidgen of childness...... wanna cum play with me?........I'm fun & 'play' nice...


akron42   
2375 posts
7/28/2006 7:37 pm

Good question! I became a parent at 19 and "grew up" in many ways. But I've never COMPLETELY grown up. Maybe it's a personality thing. I still believe the best in a person until proven wrong even though I've been blindsided time and again. Childish? I like to think I'm hopeful. I hope that all of you never lose that, the possibility that anything could still happen. We go through alot of stages in our lives, we're children, siblings, parents, partners, lovers, teachers, learners, and everything in between. But in all the phases I've experienced, I always have FUN! I can take a mundane day and still have fun. I think it's all how you look at the world. I too allow myself a smidgen of childishness and hope that never changes. I'll let you play in my pool if you let me swing on your jungle gym...just yodel and I'll ride my big wheel over!


rm_gergle775 replies on 7/30/2006 1:07 pm:
WHERE YOU AT?! DIDN'T YOU HERE ME YODEL, WHISTLE, SHOUT, HOLLER, YELL & SCREAM...I WANNA 'RIDE YOUR BIG WHEEL'!... I LIKE GETTING WET BUT I'LL FORGO THE SWIM IF YOU CUM SWING WITH ME... DON'T WORRY, I WON'T ROCK YOU TO HARD.............???!!!

I LOVE THE NEW PIC..........CURVACEOUS!!!

LIGHTS, CAMERA...................

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