What is Real?  

rm_gata11459 57F
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5/9/2006 7:39 pm

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What is Real?

It is funny this place.. isn't it? If you spend enough time here, you begin to get to know people fairly well.. you learn about them, their families, their jobs, wishes, sexual wants and needs.. lots of stuff.. more I think than if you worked together in an office setting for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week. You like lots of the people you spend time with, you dislike others. You see things evolving between them sometimes, heat, lust, and yes, even love. There are fights, jokes, teamwork, deep conversations, and some very shallow ones. We dance around each other in our own special ways, learning the steps, and the movements that make up who we are in here. Some of us are the same in here as we are out there, others couldn't be further away from our outside selves.It think there are so many mysterys here.. I mean.. who is more real.. the us in here? or the us out there? is there real love in here? or does it fade in the light of the sun out there?



Peace xxx K



loadeddice05 44M

5/9/2006 10:28 pm

So?? Am I one of tha' shallow, lusty, and jokey ones? I hope you tale me more seriously than that! Or no more afternoon nookey!!


rm_CDRoss 33M
655 posts
5/10/2006 12:53 am

Speaking of which... had been wondering how well people do know me on here. (More a curiosity than anything lol)


Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
5/10/2006 3:58 am

What is reality anyway...is it in here....or out there? and I an glad to know and to have met you in reality

Sula xxx

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HBowt2 58F

5/10/2006 4:04 am

wondering if I can have a dance soon...miss chatting to you...


rm_saucy2006k 43F

5/10/2006 5:54 am

good point gata...in my opinion...im 'me',whether its online or real life...i cant pretend to be something or someone im not...im genuine. i can say...(hand on heart)i have friends here...real friends,not many but a chosen few,whom i find are themselves... and you are one of them that i class as...genuine..... i miss chatting with ya...but im sure we will catch up soon...take care..xxxx saucy xxx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:29 pm

    Quoting loadeddice05:
    So?? Am I one of tha' shallow, lusty, and jokey ones? I hope you tale me more seriously than that! Or no more afternoon nookey!!
dice, my hunnypot.. of course you are one of my favorite shallow lusty jokey one.. and i do take you more seriously than that.. actually xoox ya know i love you too xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:30 pm

    Quoting rm_CDRoss:
    Speaking of which... had been wondering how well people do know me on here. (More a curiosity than anything lol)
CD.. you should be able to answer that better than anybody else.. how well have you let them know you? xoxo gata

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:32 pm

    Quoting Sulabula:
    What is reality anyway...is it in here....or out there? and I an glad to know and to have met you in reality
suls.. you know.. i actually believe that this is just as much reality than the outside. we are all real arent we? just as much as someone i can feel and touch.. i just feel and touch you in a different way.. and i am happy and proud to have met you too xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:33 pm

    Quoting HBowt2:
    wondering if I can have a dance soon...miss chatting to you...
b.. we'll dance and dance and dance.. i miss you too xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:36 pm

    Quoting rm_saucy2006k:
    good point gata...in my opinion...im 'me',whether its online or real life...i cant pretend to be something or someone im not...im genuine. i can say...(hand on heart)i have friends here...real friends,not many but a chosen few,whom i find are themselves... and you are one of them that i class as...genuine..... i miss chatting with ya...but im sure we will catch up soon...take care..xxxx saucy xxx
saucy.. my sweet sweet saucy one xoox im happy to see you! you know.. i know you are real.. genuine and terrific, there are few that come even close.. you know that.. and your colourful sidekick too.. i miss you too.. but you are in my thoughts every single day, friend good and true xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/10/2006 4:38 pm

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    I cannot be anything but me..and I put no pretence online chatting to the 'real world' me..whatever 'real' is..and I too have made 'real' friends in here..I know exactly what u mean and u explained beautifuly about the dynamics of the chat room... I believe 'real' emotions are felt... and I believe that its not just in the chat room..its carried around and held.... x
heav.. i dont believe that i know anyone with more character and heart as you have. you have lots of friends here, and i hope that i am one of them.. i carry you and hold you in my heart xoxo k

Peace xxx K


dankos2069 55M

5/11/2006 6:23 am

hi miss g.:
just checking in hope all is well.
I don't even know if I am real anymore after being on here for nearly 3 months....but I know you are. D


rm_aqustic2 44M
1335 posts
5/11/2006 2:36 pm

gata not hard to see your well tuned in and i think we dancing to to same tune on this one.


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/11/2006 4:15 pm

    Quoting dankos2069:
    hi miss g.:
    just checking in hope all is well.
    I don't even know if I am real anymore after being on here for nearly 3 months....but I know you are. D
d.. where the hell you been?? xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/11/2006 4:16 pm

    Quoting rm_aqustic2:
    gata not hard to see your well tuned in and i think we dancing to to same tune on this one.
ty aqus.. ahhh feels good not to be dancin with myself lol xoox k

Peace xxx K


dankos2069 55M

5/11/2006 7:30 pm

g
real life has grabbed me by the ankles and trip'd me up... still kicking tho.
btw, steamboat out, Ohio in. oh well, was nice to think I might meet you someday...even if at a LL game. Turns out air fare was the sticking pt.


rm_CDRoss 33M
655 posts
5/12/2006 2:10 am

Well... I usually am pretty straight forward to other's questions on their blogs... though sometimes I don't write much on mine.


GossipJunkie 40F

5/13/2006 1:48 pm

I haven't been in blogville long but I, too, have noticed that you DO get to know people through their blogs. It's nice to have a "community" to visit outside of work.

GossipJunkie
"Dance like nobody's watching"


runzwithknives 59F

5/14/2006 7:33 am

Maybe for some it's more of a persona like an actor with a specific role to play. That's ok too. Whatever works and we'll probably never kow so I tend to take everyone at face value so to speak.
I'm me tho. Here and there. Can't pretend. It's too much trouble.
Is there real love in here? Yes, most definitely and it's because of it all the deep and the shallow, the jokes, flirting, fights...And that I am very grateful for.

Hugs
Rosa


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/14/2006 1:54 pm

    Quoting dankos2069:
    g
    real life has grabbed me by the ankles and trip'd me up... still kicking tho.
    btw, steamboat out, Ohio in. oh well, was nice to think I might meet you someday...even if at a LL game. Turns out air fare was the sticking pt.
d.. damned life anyway.. hope all is well xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/14/2006 1:55 pm

    Quoting rm_CDRoss:
    Well... I usually am pretty straight forward to other's questions on their blogs... though sometimes I don't write much on mine.
cd.. im sure that you let them see all that needs to be seen xoxo gata

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/14/2006 1:56 pm

    Quoting GossipJunkie:
    I haven't been in blogville long but I, too, have noticed that you DO get to know people through their blogs. It's nice to have a "community" to visit outside of work.
gj.. welcome then to blogland.. hope the community is a good one for you xoxo gata

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
5/14/2006 1:58 pm

    Quoting runzwithknives:
    Maybe for some it's more of a persona like an actor with a specific role to play. That's ok too. Whatever works and we'll probably never kow so I tend to take everyone at face value so to speak.
    I'm me tho. Here and there. Can't pretend. It's too much trouble.
    Is there real love in here? Yes, most definitely and it's because of it all the deep and the shallow, the jokes, flirting, fights...And that I am very grateful for.

    Hugs
    Rosa
rosa.. i am a crappy actor.. im here take me or leave me.. thats all there is.. im grateful for all of it too xoxo gata

Peace xxx K


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