My Friend Debbie  

rm_gata11459 58F
8849 posts
7/29/2006 6:57 am

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8/2/2006 6:38 pm

My Friend Debbie

Over the next few weeks I am going to tell you about some of the people that I have in my life here. I know I know it is hard to imagine how I have another life, being on here most of the time.. but I do. And there are many people in my life that I love with all my heart. This first one is about my friend Debbie.

I met Debbie back in 1985 when i was dealing meth. As in the case with many people that i fall inlove with as friends, I couldnt stand her at first. She was so loud and boisterous, a smart ass like you can't believe, and she took no shit from anyone. She was (and still is tough as nails) and isn't somebody I would want to go full on with in a fight, cuz she a mean one. When I first began to write this, I started by describing our families. Her children and my own. When I got done, and could finally read about it thru my tears I deleted it. I share lots of personal stuff here with you all.. but this "stuff" is too personal, and isn't really something that i can go head on with. We have been thru lots of stuff together and apart me and Debbie. We have held each other thru some things that people should never have to face. It ranges from prison, loss, joy, exhaustion, and even the death of children. We have laughed till we cried together and cried till we laughed again. We have been so mad at each other we wanted to scream and kill each other. We have bridged gaps that I felt certain would never be crossed. She has watched me thru 3 totally insane marriages, and she never kicked my ass once.. always supportive, kind and loving she has been. I have wept as she was carted away to two different prison sentences. I even brought her home to her family from one long stay. There are some people that you can not imagine your life being without, and to me Debbie is that person. I can never tell her how much I love her, or even in a million years be able to show her. I just hope that she has some kind of an idea. Debbie I am gonna miss you, but this is just another physical separation, we been there and done that.. and got the t-shirt right? I do love you, adore and cherish you my sweet friend, my sister xoxox kathie


Peace xxx K



belfastbound 40F

7/29/2006 8:58 am

Ah ty for sharing K, some pple come into our lives and they end up being our angels, the person we hate the most and the person that's always there for us, but always a true friend, you two seem to have a great bond and i am sure she's a wonderful woman XXXXXXXXX


rm_jurgon3 56M
4603 posts
7/29/2006 9:11 am

poor gata, sounds like your friend has gone away again. keep those letters going you know how important they are. and im very sure she will miss you as well.

Be lucky!


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/29/2006 12:44 pm

    Quoting rm_jurgon3:
    poor gata, sounds like your friend has gone away again. keep those letters going you know how important they are. and im very sure she will miss you as well.
jurgon.. lol. no hun. i dont think she'll be goin away.. not like that anyway.. it is me goin this time hun xoxo k

Peace xxx K


irishandopen

7/29/2006 1:29 pm

Gata a friendship like that is never on sided and given the way you feel about her she must feel the exact same and even if neither of you say it well it doesn't need to be said. x


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/29/2006 2:06 pm

    Quoting belfastbound:
    Ah ty for sharing K, some pple come into our lives and they end up being our angels, the person we hate the most and the person that's always there for us, but always a true friend, you two seem to have a great bond and i am sure she's a wonderful woman XXXXXXXXX
bb.. that she is.. meaner that bat shit but wonderful.. lol xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/29/2006 2:08 pm

    Quoting irishandopen:
    Gata a friendship like that is never on sided and given the way you feel about her she must feel the exact same and even if neither of you say it well it doesn't need to be said. x
shando.. true it isnt one sided at all.. she loves me very much.. and although it doesnt need said we try and say it as much as possible. xoxo k

Peace xxx K


RJ6662 59M

7/29/2006 10:19 pm

your post today was particularly timely...

many of our best/closest friends have tendancy to come in and out of our lives at different times ........i have similar relationship with a good buddy....we had a falling out about 4 years ago....and guess what? just yesterday got a telephone call out of the blue....we laughed about old times as if time had stood still....hence, I am a firm believer that some bonds w/special people seem to run a bit deeper than others...

as always...thnx for sharing...
ciao


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/30/2006 6:33 am

    Quoting RJ6662:
    your post today was particularly timely...

    many of our best/closest friends have tendancy to come in and out of our lives at different times ........i have similar relationship with a good buddy....we had a falling out about 4 years ago....and guess what? just yesterday got a telephone call out of the blue....we laughed about old times as if time had stood still....hence, I am a firm believer that some bonds w/special people seem to run a bit deeper than others...

    as always...thnx for sharing...
    ciao
rj.. funny how that works.. debbie lives in cheyenne, so we dont see each other often.. but when i got home from dinner yesterday guess who was here waiting for me.. of course i had to show her the blog.. so we were able to sit and bawl for about 20 minutes together lol xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/30/2006 10:06 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    really lovely, can tell it came straight from the heart, looking forward to reading ure blogs over the next couple of weeks about the ppl in ure life xoxoxolots of love J
ta jodi.. im lookin forward to it too lmao xoxo k

Peace xxx K


parkingspacereq 45M

7/30/2006 2:08 pm

to let her know how you feel, just leave her this when you leave, then she /you will never forget
uncle pxxxx


mgdingo 58M

7/30/2006 4:41 pm

never met debbie but I feel as though I know and love her and she seems to always have been around ever since I met oyu.


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/30/2006 8:42 pm

    Quoting parkingspacereq:
    to let her know how you feel, just leave her this when you leave, then she /you will never forget
    uncle pxxxx
parky.. was really weird.. she came by last nite and i was able to share it with her.. xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
7/30/2006 8:43 pm

    Quoting mgdingo:
    never met debbie but I feel as though I know and love her and she seems to always have been around ever since I met oyu.
dingo... she feels the same about you xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_welshbabe70 47F
77 posts
8/2/2006 2:26 am

wot a wonderful friend she seems....people come and go throughtout our lives some make bigger impacts on our lives than others....and debbie has made a very big impact on ur life and will continue to do so.........im glad u were able to share this with her....so she knows how u feel...before u leave on your journey...but from wot u say about her she will be waiting 4 u when u return


rm_welshbabe70 47F
77 posts
8/2/2006 2:28 am

thanks for share these parts of your life...and look forward to reading more....about people who com einto your life


rm_gata11459 58F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:38 pm

    Quoting rm_welshbabe70:
    thanks for share these parts of your life...and look forward to reading more....about people who com einto your life
welshy hun... ta.. i love sharing too.. brings tears.. but good ones xoxo k

Peace xxx K


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