Let Go And Let .... Who???  

rm_gata11459 57F
8849 posts
7/15/2006 8:35 am

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Let Go And Let .... Who???

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I have this friend.. a really special friend. We haven't been friends for a long time.. but we have this special bond.. a connection that I don't know how to explain. Like it's always gonna be there.. it is fragile.. but strong.. we had talked big talk at one time, about doing things.. great things.. joyous things, but as life does.. things change.. and this time they changed dramatically.. he has a big mountain to climb, and there may be no joy of a summit.. only more climbing. Here are a few things that I know that maybe he can't see in himself.

You are strong
You have the heart of a boxer
You kind and giving
You are an asshole.. and that is what is gonna get you thru this

Sometimes we run from things that we don't want to face. Sometimes we are too sensitive and we hurt too easily. Sometimes the knowledge that soemthing is going to tear us apart, turn us inside out makes us want to run from it. Sometimes we have to stay, just because that is the only thing to do. Running seems easy, I know this because I have run.. too many times.. but the hard part of running is looking at yourself day after day... and seeing what it is that looks back at you. I tell you I will be there with you, and you know I will be, but this is something that only you can do.

Don't run.. not this time.. next time maybe.. just not this time.

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The pic at the side says "courage is not freedom from fear...it is being afraid and going on..."


Peace xxx K



Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
7/15/2006 10:44 am

Sometimes running away is easier than having to face up to things

Sula xxx

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irishandopen

7/15/2006 1:40 pm

Sometimes staying is the way we run from fear and in the end leads to the same place inside. True courage is the strength to be true too yourself no matter what the outcome is.


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/15/2006 3:35 pm

    Quoting Sulabula:
    Sometimes running away is easier than having to face up to things
true suls.. in the short term.. but in the long term it all comes back.. and then it can be even harder to face.. xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/15/2006 3:36 pm

    Quoting blonde367:
    I agree with sula, think we all do it from time to time,think the caption phraze is very apt xoxoxo J
j.. i know i have done it lots.. and lots and lots.. lmao.. have been an expert at it many times.. but there are some things you cant run from.. and if you do, it will lead to a regret.. i doubt that you will ever regret standing and facing something.. but running from it.. ya, it is almost guaranteed xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/15/2006 3:38 pm

    Quoting irishandopen:
    Sometimes staying is the way we run from fear and in the end leads to the same place inside. True courage is the strength to be true too yourself no matter what the outcome is.
shando.. wat a great perspective.. i love that.. i know that one well too.. more comfortable to stay where its ugly then to confront what is new.. you have to be true to your heart, in everything.. and i guess that is what i am trying to get to.. dont run just because it seems easier.. because you can never run from yourself xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/15/2006 3:40 pm

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    Sul is right here...and yes blonde we all do this from time to time...more often than not prob..through what? fear? responsibility? there are so many reasons...but Gata your friend is lucky to have you, as am I... true friendship is hard to come by and Im thankful your one of mine xx
heav.. thank you my sweet twisted twin.. i am so lucky to have you too.. i hope that i can be as good a friend to him and to you and to others as you all have been to me xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_madred006 45M
438 posts
7/16/2006 5:23 am

que cera cera mais est tres dur,et difficile,
je ne regrette ne rien xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/16/2006 5:46 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    you are very right tho, the inevitable will happen eventually by running away, its only a delay, not a fix and then the hill is usually a mountain xo J
blonde.. very true hun .. too true xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/16/2006 5:57 am

    Quoting rm_madred006:
    que cera cera mais est tres dur,et difficile,
    je ne regrette ne rien xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
madred.. i suppose that since you answered in french..it is fair play for me to answer in spanish.. but ill also translate it.. cuz i dont want you to miss a thing
claro que si, pero los excusas en la vida son inevitable. tu piensan en un forma romantica, pero reladad son differente.

i understand, but regrets in life are inevitable, you are thinkin in a romantic way, but reality is different.

what you may think now, will be much different later.

mi carino piensan premero, por que yo sabes que yo hables.


Peace xxx K


parkingspacereq 45M

7/18/2006 8:32 am

running away will not solve anything, it only puts off what was going to happen anyway, but this time it will be worse and as has already been said the problem is now a mountain. tell your friend not to run face it, try and sort it and then make their decision
xxxxxx uncle pxxxxx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/18/2006 8:15 pm

    Quoting parkingspacereq:
    running away will not solve anything, it only puts off what was going to happen anyway, but this time it will be worse and as has already been said the problem is now a mountain. tell your friend not to run face it, try and sort it and then make their decision
    xxxxxx uncle pxxxxx
parky hun.. you are all too true.. xoxo k

Peace xxx K


HBowt2 58F

7/19/2006 6:37 am

funny thing is you could be talking to me here too gata...i'm not running anymore...have turned and faced it.....don't know how things will land.....Bxx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/19/2006 4:47 pm

    Quoting HBowt2:
    funny thing is you could be talking to me here too gata...i'm not running anymore...have turned and faced it.....don't know how things will land.....Bxx
b.. i could have been talking about any of us at any one given moment.. and as long as you have turned and faced it, that is all that matters sweet one.. that is all we can do, any of us.. and we never know how or where it will turn up.. but if we do the best that we can, we have done all that we can xoxo k

Peace xxx K


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