Husbands  

rm_gata11459 57F
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7/16/2006 9:15 pm

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Husbands

Was talking to a friend tonite that said he would never get married again. During the conversation my ex-husband called me and told me exactly what kind of an idiot I am because of the plans I have made. I started thinking, was I an idiot because of that? or because I married him? I thought i would give little run down on my husbands lmao..

1) Garry. Was 13 years older than me. We had a great time partying together and thought this was the perfect reason to get married. I was a bartender, and one afternoon he and I and another couple got stinkin drunk, he and Speedy.. (I don't remember his real name.. his wife was Stella tho) went to the pawn shop and baught Stella and I our rings, we went to the court house and all four of us got married. I remember my bridal gown was a pair of very old jeans with a hole in the ass and a suede Harley Davidson Wings patch across the butt, (not over the hole tho), a purple tube top and a pair of flip flops. After the wedding we went back to the bar and got drunker. We rest of the marriage was much like that, except from drinking we went on to lots and lots of drugs added in. We had two children and I split, never to see him again for about 20 years. I did see him last summer and my kids wanted to kill me when they saw their "daddy" I got clean and he didnt. All I'll say.

2) Orlan. He is the person that I split with. He was a hot fucker, another biker. Had been in so many crashes he was put together with pins and wires, but a monster in bed.. that may have been one reason I was soooooooooo attracted to him. lmao.. He had huge blue eyes that looked like he was half asleep most of the time, long curly brown hair and a long beard. And was loonier than a fookin tune. I had known him for a long time, and he was a bit flighty, but then again so was I so seemed perfect. It was only later that his "flighty" side turned into a diagnosis of bi-polar schitzophrenia. He did mention later that his first visit to the nut house was when he was 15, and his mother had spent most of her adult life in there too. We didnt have an actual wedding. I wouldnt have ever done that. I mean I do have SOME standards. I did however sign a paper stating that I was married to him Common Law, so that I could claim him on my insurance, you know mental health issues. lol. He was the ulitmate definition of a bunny boiler.. that fucker was sneaky too.. omg.. he tricked me so many times. I'd get away and he would find me. I would lock the door and he would sneak in later thru the window and unlock it, so he could BUST in when i got home. He would be in closets, under cars, in back seats, and under the bed. I actually moved states twice and here he would come.. I remember once we were living in another town, moved into a really nice place. He got nutty on me and I snuck out. My sister and i went to get some of our stuff when he was gone, and while driving away I seen him walking down the street in a pair of my pink sweat pants, a yellow and white striped sweater with shoulder pads(mine also) and his black steel caps. He hadnt been able to find his own clothes, so he wore mine to walk tot he liquer store. Twas a proud moment I'll tell ya. This guy I could really tell ya some stories about. I did finally get rid of him, but it cost me a career and a couple of felony assualt charges, but actually scared him off. Last I heard he had wet brain and was homeless.

3) Cosme. (aka Cosmo) Ok this one.. im not sure about. It was really a blur. He was 9 years younger than me, and Mexican. Turns out he was the most normal of them all. (and that is the scary part). We did have a great time together, but this guy was a screamer, OMG.. he would yell and scream and go on and on and on. This one still calls me at least 2-3 times a week.. I am still his bon bon, his mija, his cielo. I suppose I always will be, and we will be friends in a way. But I am really glad that one is done too. To that wedding i wore a hicky necklace. lmao. My daughter was crying because she could see me from the back shaking. She thought I was crying .. I wasn't, I was laughing.

It is weird, my mom and da have been married nearly 60 years. My brother and sister in law 25 years and my little sister celebrated her 20th anniversary with her husband this year. So I am aware that marriage is supposed to be taken seriously. I think. lmao.. But now I tell you..I doubt that I would ever do it again either friend lmao.



Peace xxx K



Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
7/17/2006 3:14 am

So which ex husband was the one who called you?

Sula xxx

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rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/17/2006 4:52 am

    Quoting Sulabula:
    So which ex husband was the one who called you?
cosme did , orlan couldnt figure the complexity of the phone and garry couldnt afford the $.50.. lmao.. xoox k

Peace xxx K


belfastbound 40F

7/17/2006 11:03 am

And all of the above makes you the wonderful, loving, amazing woman that you are today XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/17/2006 4:42 pm

    Quoting rm_sexyfitwoman:
    Interesting choices...

    I'm confused about your kids wanting to "kill you" over seeing their daddy. It sounds like they are mad at you for not having him in their life, but if I read it again, it could also be interpreted that they think you are nuts for bothering to see him again at all.
sexy...although i find your analytical skills simply amazing.. they wanted to kill me cuz i forced them to meet with the loser.. he is an OLD drug addict. sad sight, especially when you are the child. gata

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/17/2006 4:44 pm

    Quoting blonde367:
    Well one thing ure life has never been boring, loved reading that, gave a great insight ta xoxoxo J
lololol.. j.. no it hasnt been boring.. choices are funny things aint they? lol xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/17/2006 4:45 pm

    Quoting belfastbound:
    And all of the above makes you the wonderful, loving, amazing woman that you are today XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
ahhh bb.. you're always so kind to me.. i love you xoxo ta k

Peace xxx K


tadpudgy 56M

7/17/2006 8:26 pm

mom and dad were married almost 30 years. he has celebrated 20 more with wife #2. bot older sisters divorced. (4 between them). youngest sister struggling to keep hers together. mom married, divorced Husband #2, after 2 years, he was 26 yrs her junior. i am only family member to never marry. was engaged once. all family, as well as divorced friends, chuckle and say i was the smartest. best friend encourage me that even with spouse and kids, a person can be lonely in their own home. i celebrate and get misty eyed when i meet people still married for significant amounts of years. because divorce is compared to a drive through window. and cry for married people trapped in loveless homes. keep the faith, beacuse we never give up on the dream of real love!


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/18/2006 5:16 am

    Quoting tadpudgy:
    mom and dad were married almost 30 years. he has celebrated 20 more with wife #2. bot older sisters divorced. (4 between them). youngest sister struggling to keep hers together. mom married, divorced Husband #2, after 2 years, he was 26 yrs her junior. i am only family member to never marry. was engaged once. all family, as well as divorced friends, chuckle and say i was the smartest. best friend encourage me that even with spouse and kids, a person can be lonely in their own home. i celebrate and get misty eyed when i meet people still married for significant amounts of years. because divorce is compared to a drive through window. and cry for married people trapped in loveless homes. keep the faith, beacuse we never give up on the dream of real love!
tad.. what a lovely post thank you .. very insightfull of you, and true you can be lonley in your own home even when you live with spouse and kids.. thank you xoxo k

Peace xxx K


parkingspacereq 45M

7/18/2006 8:37 am

well i got married married on halloween, was that some kind of omen or what lol, i always said it was the only way the mother in law could get to the wedding as it was cheap flights on her broom lol


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/18/2006 4:22 pm

Gata,i've been resisting it for so long..i just have to say it...!

I think you look FAB! in your pic.Your beautiful face always catches my eye.(I know this seems like i'm just giving you a line,but it's true)

Sorry,i just could'nt resist it any longer.

I browse through alot of profiles,& it seems that you know,or are known by everyone.Obviously for good reasons!!..lol..

I enjoy your blogs,& i thank you for sharing it.

hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/18/2006 7:58 pm

    Quoting parkingspacereq:
    well i got married married on halloween, was that some kind of omen or what lol, i always said it was the only way the mother in law could get to the wedding as it was cheap flights on her broom lol
lmao parky... not nice but very funny.. i only had one bad mother in law garrys mom was a fookin nightmare.. she took scissors to everythign in site.. she chopped up curtains, my prom dress.. all to "alter" or make it better.. old cunt lmao xoox good un hun xoox ta k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/18/2006 8:01 pm

    Quoting daighi:
    Gata,i've been resisting it for so long..i just have to say it...!

    I think you look FAB! in your pic.Your beautiful face always catches my eye.(I know this seems like i'm just giving you a line,but it's true)

    Sorry,i just could'nt resist it any longer.

    I browse through alot of profiles,& it seems that you know,or are known by everyone.Obviously for good reasons!!..lol..

    I enjoy your blogs,& i thank you for sharing it.

    hugs,

    D. XX
wowowo daighi.. that made my day hun thank you very much.. very sweet.. yer not too bad yerself xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/18/2006 8:10 pm

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    thankyou so much for sharing this with us my sweet TT .... you know I luv u regadless of any shit and if you get the chance of happiness...you grap it with both hands and hold on real tight xxxxx
TT.. thank you sweet heart i love you too, and there will always be shit with me.. lmao.. and im glad i have you hun xoxo im grabbing im grabbing xoxo k

Peace xxx K


runzwithknives 59F

7/19/2006 4:37 am

Great post. LMAO. All in all it sounds like you had a boatload of fun with these ones. Funny what we see when we look back at it all.

During the conversation my ex-husband called me and told me exactly what kind of an idiot I am because of the plans I have made.
You too? They really all think alike don't they. Oh well, he never thought I had 1/2 a brain anyway-lmao.
Can't ever see me married again either. Serious? We're supposed to be serious? Sounds like things are holding up pretty well, K. Hugs, Rosa


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/19/2006 5:33 am

    Quoting runzwithknives:
    Great post. LMAO. All in all it sounds like you had a boatload of fun with these ones. Funny what we see when we look back at it all.

    During the conversation my ex-husband called me and told me exactly what kind of an idiot I am because of the plans I have made.
    You too? They really all think alike don't they. Oh well, he never thought I had 1/2 a brain anyway-lmao.
    Can't ever see me married again either. Serious? We're supposed to be serious? Sounds like things are holding up pretty well, K. Hugs, Rosa
rosa.. things are holding up good hun.. ya i cant see me doing it again too ..but im unpredictable so you never can tell lmao.. ill marry another one worse than the rest im sure.. xoxo kathie

Peace xxx K


HBowt2 58F

7/19/2006 6:32 am

so who says variety isn't good for you.....sounds like you'll die laughing gata.....no one could ever say you were bored...


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/19/2006 4:32 pm

    Quoting HBowt2:
    so who says variety isn't good for you.....sounds like you'll die laughing gata.....no one could ever say you were bored...
lolol.. B.. i will die laughing lmao xoox lurve you xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/19/2006 4:35 pm

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    kisses to u my sweet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ta my TT xoxo i lurve you so much xoox k

Peace xxx K


irishandopen

7/20/2006 5:12 pm

Ok my reason for getting married now seems very sane thank you


irishandopen

7/20/2006 5:19 pm

Btw got married on friday the 13th maybe not the best of ideas lol


RJ6662 58M

7/20/2006 7:57 pm

that's the best story i've read in a long while....still smiling..

thnx for sharing.....


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/20/2006 8:26 pm

    Quoting irishandopen:
    Btw got married on friday the 13th maybe not the best of ideas lol
lol shando.. you on fri the 13th and parky on halloween.. me on all the other days.. think we got them covered.. yer either a good picker or a bad picker.. me im a bad married person.. lol.. xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/20/2006 8:28 pm

    Quoting RJ6662:
    that's the best story i've read in a long while....still smiling..

    thnx for sharing.....
ta rj.. im actually still laughing.. insanity.. you know lmao xoxo k

Peace xxx K


grouchy68 48M

7/23/2006 4:46 am

God loves a trier and your devotion to marriage has earned you a great reward in the here after ... however in the meantime be more picky

xx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/23/2006 8:22 am

    Quoting grouchy68:
    God loves a trier and your devotion to marriage has earned you a great reward in the here after ... however in the meantime be more picky

    xx
ta grouchy... that i will remember .. ill be less likely to be on god's good side for trying lol xoox k

Peace xxx K


rm_welshbabe70 46F
77 posts
7/24/2006 3:08 am

well if u found the right guy again...come back and tell me u woudlnt do it again......lol....i've always said never again...but wots that saying 'never say never'


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/24/2006 8:47 pm

    Quoting rm_welshbabe70:
    well if u found the right guy again...come back and tell me u woudlnt do it again......lol....i've always said never again...but wots that saying 'never say never'
welshy lol.. well cant say never but will say not likely hun lol xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_jurgon3 55M
4603 posts
7/25/2006 9:24 am

i finally worked out how to do this blog lark! tapped in your name and here you are, the lovely gata! i read your story, its very well put togetherand you write with great humour and style. gata i send you lots of hugs for being so unlucky in love, and hope you find your soul mate as you are long overdue. i cant leave here without tlling you a joke so here goes.
it was the young couples first night of wedded bliss.They undressed each other tentatively, he admiring her beautiful body and she his fine physique. When she removed his sock, the last item of of clothing, she saw that he had no toes on his left foot, Shocked at this terrible deformity, she ran sobbing into the night, back to her mother. !i told you what to expect," said her mother. "ive given you good sex education. whats the problem?" "its not that" she cried. "when he stripped off, he only had three quarters of a foot" "oh!" said mother. "why dont you finish the dishes and go off to bed. ill be back in the morning"

Be lucky!


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
7/25/2006 7:45 pm

lolololol.. jurgon.. yer a character xoxo love you k

Peace xxx K


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