Cosme  

rm_gata11459 57F
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8/1/2006 10:02 pm

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Cosme

This next person I need to say goodbye to may surprise you a bit.. it is my ex husband Cosme. We have this relationship that is a love hate kinda thing.. he is Mexican.. from Mexico, and has some really strange ideas about the way things should be.. Like when a man cheats on a woman.. he is a MAN. When a woman cheats, she is a puta or a whore. Our marriage was a constant battle of who was the boss. I of course was, and he was just too thick to realize that. Cosme had this beautiful sombrero that he cherished. I dont really know why, he found it in an old house, so it wasnt even his, but it was lovely. It was red with golden embroidry threaded designs, beads and silver medals on it. It had been built by someone that took great pride in their art. Not long after we were married, Cosme had made plans to take myself, his sister and her husband to Denver to eat. We had planned it for a week. Rarely did he do anything so sweet. Ernestina and Joaquin arrived at our house all dressed up.. and I dressed in my best ready for the day out to eat and shop. We lived in a nice little house in the country on the corner of two highways. Cosme told Joaquin that they needed to go into the small little town near us for something but assured Ernie and I they would be back very soon.. like within an hour. Ernie started pitching a fit, said they wouldnt come back, but I thought she was being silly. I dont ever believe in directing people on what they should do... you need to trust them right? Well after about 4 hours i got pretty pissed. He had done it yet again.. blew me off like it was nothing. I took his lovely sombrero outside, and sat it in the drive way.. Waiting to see the car coming back down the highway. Ernestina sat on the steps looking at me like i was insane if i was gonna do something to his hat. As I saw them approaching, and i could see that they could see me.. i poured some gas on the hat and set it afire, and began to do my Mexican hat dance. I could see Cosme's face in the windsheild of the car. First when he could see me standing in the drive way, amused because he had pulled one over on me. Then confused as he saw me pour something on his hat. Then horror when he saw the flames. Then total shock and amusement when I began to dance. He jumped out of the car before it even stopped.. stood there looking at me for a second.. just to make sure he was actually seeing what he was seeing. He then ran over to the hat, and began stomping on it to put out the fire. I smiled at him and walked back into the house.. asking Ernie on my way back in if she was ready. He got the hat put out, but what was left after the fire, was destroyed by his stomping. He tried to save it, but alas, it had a hole burned right thru the top. He screamed at me "mija! i hate you, you fucking bitch!" (mija is a term of endearment, meaning mi hija or my daughter) He carried his hat to the bin and we got into the car and went to Denver. Lurve ya Cosme. xoxo kathie


Peace xxx K



chicagoegypt26 40M

8/1/2006 10:44 pm

I would love to see u doing the mexican hat dance.
espero bailar contiga toda la noche


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/1/2006 11:44 pm

    Quoting chicagoegypt26:
    I would love to see u doing the mexican hat dance.
    espero bailar contiga toda la noche
vamos para el baile mijo, y canta los bonitos canciones como antonio aguilar xoxo con mucho amor k

aye aye aye aye canta no llores!


Peace xxx K


ladyjim1 86F

8/2/2006 1:19 am


I love your style lady....Armagh aint gonna no what has hit it..


Jonny_RottenGuy 44M

8/2/2006 2:06 am

AdultFriendFinder dance.... i agree with lady....Armagh be afraid....be very afriad


rm_welshbabe70 46F
77 posts
8/2/2006 3:01 am

omg kathie......good on u girl.....can just imagine u setting fire to the hat and doin ur dance ...u made my day now


irishandopen

8/2/2006 3:25 am

Sounds like a love hate relationship alright , hate to tell you it's not a mexican thing to think it's alright for a man to cheat but not a woman plenty of Irish men think that too.


rm_jurgon3 55M
4603 posts
8/2/2006 5:50 pm

gata the hat muderer lol, youve done it again, another great post ty.
as it happens i have a sombrero, we use it on our golf days, its presented to the winner who is often called a bandit now i know who to invite to present the prizes, you can do the mexican hat dance to santana or the gypsie kings lol

Be lucky!


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:29 pm

    Quoting ladyjim1:

    I love your style lady....Armagh aint gonna no what has hit it..


lady.. you and me in armagh?? Duffer and IRISHLAD?? OMG they are in biggg trouble xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:30 pm

    Quoting Jonny_RottenGuy:
    AdultFriendFinder dance.... i agree with lady....Armagh be afraid....be very afriad
wowo johnny.. all we need is you now..mmmm wat could we do???.. ffs we would be bad news together xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:32 pm

    Quoting rm_welshbabe70:
    omg kathie......good on u girl.....can just imagine u setting fire to the hat and doin ur dance ...u made my day now
welshy.. mmm yap made my day when i did it.. and makes it everytime i think of it now.. that is the tip of the iceberg with him ill tell ya.. we had some good ones lmao xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:34 pm

    Quoting irishandopen:
    Sounds like a love hate relationship alright , hate to tell you it's not a mexican thing to think it's alright for a man to cheat but not a woman plenty of Irish men think that too.
shando hun.. ya it is.. he still calls me 2-3 times per week.. tells me how much he loves me and calls me a bitch lmao xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:35 pm

    Quoting blonde367:
    absolutely pmsfl.. great story and could see the image in my head as i was reading it. classic xoxoxo J
ill show ya my dance at the meet lol xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/2/2006 6:36 pm

    Quoting rm_jurgon3:
    gata the hat muderer lol, youve done it again, another great post ty.
    as it happens i have a sombrero, we use it on our golf days, its presented to the winner who is often called a bandit now i know who to invite to present the prizes, you can do the mexican hat dance to santana or the gypsie kings lol
ya jurgon.. i prolly know the words too lmao xoxoo k

Peace xxx K


parkingspacereq 45M

8/3/2006 3:26 am

waiting to see the dance, not just poor armagh poor ireland, lol. can i be your tourist guide for the north coast please lol
uncle pxxx


rm_gata11459 57F
10597 posts
8/3/2006 6:13 am

    Quoting parkingspacereq:
    waiting to see the dance, not just poor armagh poor ireland, lol. can i be your tourist guide for the north coast please lol
    uncle pxxx
parky.. sure you can.. it'll be loads of fun lmao xoox k

Peace xxx K


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