getting back to my authentic self  

rm_galatoonces 47F
30 posts
9/13/2005 7:05 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

getting back to my authentic self


How do you balance being a suburban mommy (stationwagon, 2 kids, etc) with being more of your "authentic self"?

Hard to be a sex kitten when you are driving carpool...

How do you have a sweet sex life, find lovers (especially other women!) and not have your kids get scarred in the process?

Sometimes I wonder about these things

rm_galatoonces 47F
9 posts
9/15/2005 3:40 pm

When my hubby & I have sex, it is very satisfying.

As to women -- lets see... I've been with 3 in my whole life. 2 were relationships (20 years ago, and 8 years ago respectively) and 1 was a menage-a-tois situation 19 years ago. Not a real impressive track record!

Don't know about the internet as a substitute but its a creative outlet for sure.

And yes, I think my kids know more than most that there are lots of different types of people and lots of different kinds of relationships in the world.


bifemseeksfem 60F

9/21/2005 3:14 pm

I think it (authenticity and being true to your inner self) comes with time...and the further you move away from the whole soccer mom thing, the easier it gets. Let's face it, when you have kids at home, you kind of have to put your head down and go. The time does come, though (and it's delicious when it does!), when you have whole chunks of your life to yourself again. It really came together for me then. I'm sure it will for you, too.


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