rm_funguynokcnw 62M
57 posts
10/8/2005 9:50 am

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Why are so many people prejudiced? Whether it is race or age or size - prejudice stunts growth opportunities. To say "I'm not going to talk to you because you are too old or too young or too tall or too short or too this or too that is too stupid. I wonder how many wonderful friendships are never realized because you are too prejudiced?

guynamedjim 58M
729 posts
10/8/2005 12:08 pm

How much how we all actually been conditioned by society/ Hollywood/ air brushed images of what people should look like. No wonder everyone is so disllusioned! To much time looking at the exteriors and missing all the wonderful people right around us. To much time worry over self, and little time give to understanding and knowning anyone different. All this instant technology and we are still disappointed. Investment comes to mind. Hot gals, cool guys only applies to looks it doesn't speak well of inner beauty. Truely if we are adults dialog and understanding would be the order of the day, and not the fast food mentality of serving self.
Gee! On the bus the other day a young gal recognized this and commented that we have it all backwards! It doesn't speak well how we relate to others does it?

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
10/8/2005 12:23 pm

Good question! I am not prejudice at all but I do have preferences. Most men who contact me are not contacting me for friendship. they are wanting sex and thats it. I prefer not to indulge in sex with guys 33 and under, I do not care to get involved with a man shorter than I am. I am open to friendships. I even have conversations with guys who are at a great distance who is below that age limit but yet they dont want friendships, as I have stated above. It is no secret that I prefer white men over black, But yet I still have conversation with black men.

So for me its not being prejudice it's being selective in our desires. I wouldn't dare tell a white man I cant date him because he's white, because thats not me. But I can tell him I dont date certain white men because they lack what I am looking for or desire.

I hope this helps some.

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rm_funguynokcnw 62M

10/8/2005 2:00 pm

Well spoken, thanks. I guess the thing that amazes me is how many people can't seem to explore, whether that is beyond their prejudices, preferences or outisde the safety of the comfort zone. My thought is when boundaries are never challenged are we truly at growth as an individual?

lifeisablast333 53M

10/10/2005 5:31 pm

stupid people are everywhere....and that is a true fact.....iknow...
because i just made it up.................the redneck

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