The Chase  

rm_freshmoe 52M
273 posts
7/12/2006 12:09 pm

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7/19/2006 7:20 am

The Chase

In my last post I asked about “The Rules”, which of course has to do with the games we play during the courtship process. Now I’m all for a little fun and I don’t mind some of the hoops you have go through early on. To me it’s interesting. It keeps you thinking about the other person. I’ll admit that I try to do things that keep me in the mind of my prey.

Being a guy I have to say that I have done a lot more hunting than being the one that’s hunted. I don’t know how many can relate to this, but I’ve been in situations where I chase and chase and every once in a while I catch them, only to have them slip out of my hands so I ended up chasing even harder. I then again catch them briefly and the cycle continues for quite some time. Isn’t love a wonderful thing? However, all of a sudden after chasing and chasing, you finally catch your prey and they don’t try to get away. What the fuck? They change the game on you and all of a sudden you’re the one being chased.

It can be a scary thing. You think that they are what you’ve wanted for so long and you’ve told them that. Deep down you wonder if they will ever feel the same way. Then BAM! They do. Now what do you do? You almost second guess what you have been doing all this time. You start questioning if they are truly what you want. You hope that you haven’t been leading them on all this time. In the back of your mind, you never believed this day would happen. On one hand, you’re happy as shit. On the other hand, you’re terrified of what’s to come next.

Am I the only one that’s ever felt this way or can any of you relate to me?


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
7/12/2006 12:29 pm

I'd be happy if a girl me right now... soooo, with that being said, i'd love to be chased a little.

rm_freshmoe replies on 7/19/2006 7:18 am:
Nothing wrong with a girl doing the chasing. Cetainly would be a change for the better!

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
7/12/2006 3:47 pm

The thrill of the chase is fun but only for a while, then it just gets old...(either being the chaser or the chasee).

I prefer when it's a natural collision and you both run into and towards each other!!Pity that doesn't happen too often.

Frangi x

rm_freshmoe replies on 7/19/2006 7:18 am:
Never happens to me.

TabithaElectra 37F

7/13/2006 10:35 am

I'm with frangi on this!

rm_freshmoe replies on 7/19/2006 7:19 am:
Then I'll reply the same to you... Never happens to me.

rm_thepav 47M
278 posts
7/13/2006 4:17 pm

I know what youre saying. It's like running into a sudden wall of reverse psychology that messes with your head. Also, sometimes it's timing, like when the game changes just as you've gotten sick of it. At that point nothing feels genuine on either side.

rm_freshmoe replies on 7/19/2006 7:21 am:
Great way to put it. Couldn't agree more.

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