"Explaining Myself"  

rm_foxy197003 46F
6 posts
10/15/2005 2:14 pm

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"Explaining Myself"

I guess I should explain myself better this arrangement I was discussing previously,I like it because we've known each other for almost 2 yrs.I won't sleep with just some married man I've never met,I love sex but,I'm not easy& I like to stay d/d free it's scary out there another reason I like this I know where he's been& vise versa. But any comments would be appt. but if you're going to judge me don't cast the first stone!Wink Foxy!

FriendlyTickler 45M

10/31/2005 7:07 am

You do appear to be physically attractive and you seem to be well spoken. I would guess that if you really wanted to you could get yourself out of your situation or "dillema". My guess is that you've become emotionally attached to this man which would make sense given the time and intimacy that you've both shared together. So what to do? Well, you're right about many woman disagreeing with your choice to be with a married man. But on the other hand there are those who wouldn't see an issue with it. My take on it is this, you live one time and with that being said shouldn't you be happy? If your happiness is with this man then so be it. I wouldn't consider you to be a home wrecker. That would be his burden to carry. After all, he has the ability to say "yes" or "no". You should remember though, this relationship likely will not go any further then what it has already. It sounds as though he has no intentions of leaving his wife for you. So you could say that he's having his cake and eating it too, at least until he gets caught. As for yourself, you should really examine if you're happy with the status of your relationship. Some would say that you may be a little insecure or maybe unsure of yourself. I can't say that I know you personally but for men, we typically find the woman attractive first and then get to know them. So given your pictures I would think that you could draw the attention of many men. I don't know if any of that helps but none the less, good luck.

rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/19/2005 4:34 am

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