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"You are too young"
"You are too young"
How many times did you get that? I got it often enough to take the time to reflect on the matter. What do you answer? How do you answer? So many questions pop in your head... so here's what I came up with.
First rule: do not get angry or annoyed! Seems like basic stuff but you'd be surprised at the number of times I read some mean stuff after a guy was given the dreaded sentence... by reacting this way you forfeit all chances of ever fucking someone on this site... women talk (a lot! and when possible against each other...lol) and you'll soon find yourself in the persona non grata role, in which case it's game over, press reset and try again with a new nick. Do not answer stuff like: Did it ever occur to you that I'm not too young, you're too old? Well my dick's just as shriveled as an old guy's when dipped in water! That's okay, I just remembered, I can't stand that old people smell! Though all of these will surely vent some of your annoyance, it's also suicide on a site like this. REMEMBER, women love to test men, they'll say stuff like that to see if you're mature enough to take it like a man.
Second rule: cockiness and arrogance aren't your friends. Being cocky or arrogant will only confirm your lack of maturity... seems like you can't win either way right? I know the feeling... but keep in mind that a woman is a complex being, capable of changing her mind in a nanosecond (or never, but you're already going nowhere so what do you have to lose by being patient and nice?), so you have to keep your cool, be nice, be patient and even if she don't want you for herself, she'll advertise for you and women love to know you've got some kind of "seal of approval" by another woman.
Think I'm wrong? Let me know!
Think I'm right? Let me know!
All I can say is that it worked for me so far...
Some comebacks I've tried with good results:
-Guess we'll have to wait and see...
-How would you know? We haven't had a real conversation yet...
-Do you always judge a book by it's cover?
-Did you ever get bitten by a young guy(if not why so scared? lol)?
The key part is: ? Ask questions... put her on the spot... remember a woman's favorite subject will always be herself... and for God's sake do not get in there with a "I'm God's gift to women" attitude, or you'll get torn apart! Try to be funny and refreshing, there's way too many guys out there who just go into chatrooms asking: any horny women here? Look you idiot: if they weren't, then why would they be on AdultFriendFinder? Would you get up on a table and ask that at a party? Same etiquette applies to the chatroom and even more so since good looks won't excuse your insipid comments here.
By the way, since this is my first post ever, it's possible that it sucked big time (lol), so let me know... I'll try to do better as it goes! Promised!
7/28/2006 3:35 pm
flying ben ouais ces vrai tu va trouver quelqu un y a bike ero moi nomad lolllllllllllllllllll.|
7/28/2006 7:27 pm
Sweetiedicky, you're soooo cute!!! Love your first post!! I liked the rules lol|
I've never had a bad comeback for saying to someone they were to young.. well maybe I forgot??? lol
I can understand how it can be frustrating at times. There is such a thing as too young for me too. I'd say my cutoff is 24-25. Not totally strict on that if I feel at some point that he is mature and respectful I could change my mind yes.
Where I really but really draw the line is 20/21 and under. There is something about being double his age that gets to me LOL
Welcome to blogland sweetie
7/30/2006 12:38 pm
Bon j'ai lu peut être un peu tard, mais pour le connaitre perso (et très bien sois dit en passant!)sachez que flying est le meilleur exemple qui ne faut pas ce fier a l'âge..... Il a la beauté, la sensualité,il sais me faire rire et me faire frémir...|
Donc a tout ceux et celle qui croient que l'âge est un obstacle au bon moments, prenez le temps de le découvrir... Vous reviendrez sûrement sur votre décision!
je t'adore mon coeur xxx
7/31/2006 6:28 pm
t'es vraiment un imbécile de trou d'cul pour m'avoir cité sans d'abord m'en avoir parlé.