Guys and Dolls  

rm_flirtsforu 46F
42 posts
2/4/2006 7:55 am

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9/18/2007 12:37 pm

Guys and Dolls

I given myself a few weeks to get used to this site and now want to get more involved. All of you have been really cool to get to know, thank-you for making me feel welcome. My experience started with meeting a wonderful man - smedlysupergophr - who took his time and helped me become more comfortable and confident in my resolve and I am so grateful. My next experience was a bit lack-luster ... after all his posturing and promises of intellectual conversation and being gentle and caring, the guy just wanted sex. He didn't get any, I'm not that kind of girl.

So to all guys out there....
1. Don't send me a picture of your cock unless I ask for it ... and I will.
2. Don't wink at me or add me to your hotlist if you want to get to know me.
3. If you email me, talk to me .. don't just send me your 'cut and paste' letter.
4. If you give me any of that "you are so gorgeous" and "your body is hot" crap ... forget it ... if you can't think of anything more original, move along. You can’t just twist my nipple and get me all hot and horny ... give me a break!!!!
5. Create a meaningfull Profile and Blog. I will not respond to a couple of lines of generic boring blabbering. Show me you have some respect for yourself.
6. Be creative, draw me in, entice me ... show me your brain ....

The bottom line is this (and I'm sure the ladies will agree)


What I want is:
1. A Man (okay .. Women too Mmmmmm)
2. A Brain to go with him (her)
3. A halfway decent body (extra padding is okay, I'm not an idiot)
4. Then you can show me your cock.

Girls I've had no problems with!!! Your emails have been thoughtful and nice, your pictures artistic and tasteful. I’ve taken a lesson from some of your pictures and will get my friend to take a few more of me ..... in a less revealing pose.

Okay, I'm done for my first post.

sweethoneysouth 37F
280 posts
2/4/2006 10:09 am

LOL. Very well thought out. keep posting, I look forward to learning more about you through your blog. Smedly is a lucky man to have been able to take such a beautiful creature under his wing... Now it is time for you to fly!

dragonstealth 56M

2/4/2006 10:00 pm

Okay,read my blog and respond.

rm_RoyDs 46M
8 posts
2/5/2006 12:44 am

Great start! here's my thing though. I USED to put a ton of thought into my messages, and would make them unique, but I found that I would not get many responses and i put a lot of time into them. So, now I do a short 1-2 liner about the profile and attach my 'cut and paste letter'. If more people would respond, even to say, "Thank you for the message, but your not my type." I would feel that all that effort was not in vain. think about it like this, if someone came up to you in person, and said something, you wouldn't/couldn't just click delete and make them go away...

Sorry if this seems like a bitch-post. Totally not my intention! just wanted to make the point!

rm_flirtsforu 46F
80 posts
2/5/2006 7:26 am

Good start ... here is my interpretation of your posts to help you understand me better. Remember, I jumped up on the Stage and said my thing ... I'm squinting through the bright lights, clutching my churning stomach and straining to hear you over the din of the crowd.

This is what I saw:

LQQKie4U - You just waved at me from across the room and give my a nice warm smile. You’ll have my ear when you come back.
sweethoneysouth - I've got chills, you gave me a hug and whispered words of encouragement in my ear and held me when my legs when numb with your touch.
dragonstealth - Sorry bud, you just puffed out your chest, whistled and said "hey, baby, come over here" .... and I don't come when I'm called.


rm_flirtsforu 46F
80 posts
2/5/2006 2:13 pm

RoyDs - First of all, thank-you for writing ... I appreciate the comment and your candor. What I can not do is speak for any other lady on this site and I apologize if it sounded like I stereotype anyone here. My list above applies to me alone. I suspect, talking with other women, that there are others that share the same opinion. Yes, there are women who want to check out the male appendage and look up from there and there are women who want a man to say "you've got a great personality" and "I just love those shoes".
I am certain we all understand how different and unique all of us are .. what we all miss is that there is not "one sure-fire approach" that works for everyone. But what I firmly believe in is that you will get exactly what you put out .... and in that I mean your one-liners will attract a certain type of women and your thoughtful posts will attract another type of women. It also sounds like neither type is interested but that is not necessarily a bad thing. Typically this only means that you may be targeting the wrong personality type.
What you should not do is give up. If I do not respond to an email for some reason and the man was sincere and open, 6 months from now when he emails me again, I'll remember him.
Be yourself ... if this site doesn't work for you, you may wish to try another site, that is all.
I read your blog ... I hope things pick up for you.
Oh, your question ... yes, I sometimes wish I had a delete key in real life ... he he he!

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
3/11/2006 12:13 pm

welcome to blogging, and compliments on the post

should you be interested, we have a very nice group for bloggers on here too. Feel free to join us...

Hung_N_Tongue4U 56M

3/18/2006 8:42 am

A great post. And welcome to blogland. Good luck in your searching

slave_to_desire 29M
1 post
7/29/2007 11:59 pm

I thought the blog you have here was very informative and a rather good insight into your personality. I'm new here myself, just signed on today actually, and it's a pleasure to read what you have here, eloquently phrased and well written, I hope you find what your after here. Good luck to both of us

rm_flirtsforu 46F
80 posts
8/11/2007 6:36 am

Thank you all for your comments. Slave, I hope you find what you are looking for as well. The search for truth and friendship is fraught with peril --- enter at your own risk --- hmmm, maybe I should rephrase that ---

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