do we lose our sex appeal with age  

rm_firehot2003 57M
2111 posts
11/5/2005 9:46 am

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do we lose our sex appeal with age

As a male in my mid forties im curious what people think about sex appeal

Do men lose there sex appeal when the only hair that grows on the head is in there ears and nose. when there chest and tummy head southward nearer the ground and the solid rippling muscles turn wobbly and wrinkly.

women on the other hand have other problems areas.

But the question is

Do we lose sex appeal with age or is it the case that some people have greater sex appeal when older ????????

What parts of the female boby do you females not appreciate with age ????????

As i write this im say to myself what is sex appeal.?????? Tell me what you think

Just to finish off i want to tell the females reading this that im not a wobbly,wrinkly piece of jelly with hair in my ears and nose> oh horror the thought

firehot xxxxx

justanicegal159 47F

11/5/2005 11:10 am appeal is different for all of us, and relative as well. Personally....a man that takes care of matter what his age can be depends on THEIR mindset, and perhaps a bit of my own. As I get...older...I find that, oddly enough, stimulating conversation can be just as appealing as any part of the anatomy...with the exception perhaps of one's eyes...they can truly be windows to the soul.

Take care

Theflinkychick 105F

11/5/2005 1:47 pm

As I get older, I too find that more and more of my responses stem from personality and intelligence. However, I have not become blind to the physical attributes that have always attracted me. I think that as we age, at least it is true in my case, there are MORE things to find sexually attractive in a prospective partner rather than less.

Not all who wander are lost.

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/11/2005 1:19 pm

well personally im better looking now than i was at 20..

Im a more confident women

Ive a nicer body

My hair is def nicer

I think as we mature we discover alot about ourselves

Discover how to treat people.. to talk to people.. we are not so wrapped up in ourselves..

Im alot more sexual too, I find more men looking my way now than they ever did,

I was always a shy church mouse, I would NEVER try and get attention ever,

I would be the last up to dance, now im the first..

men are the same .. more confident sexier as they get older..

Who need hair?? shave it all off!!

Its the sexy person inside that you need to let out

You oooooooze sex appeal..

Trim those nose hairs and get out there and ENJOY

Love silky xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

daighi 49M
1449 posts
11/13/2005 3:13 am

Sex appeal is very different for all of us,& there are different ways to look at it depending on whether your a male or female.

Guys tends to be more visual in their approach to choosing an ideal partner,whereas i have found that MOST women tend to find personality sexy before looks.

It is a fact that MOST men tend to age more gracfully over time.The fact that they develop grey hair & go all soft in their bodies,is generally seen as maturing with age.

Women on the other hand have to struggle all their lives to look sexy.They know that to grow old gracfully is harder for them as "Gravity" is always working against their bodies.

That is of course why womens cosmetics & dietary products remain the highest grossing products in the world today.

It is a sad fact that there is an unequal attitude to sex appeal among the sexes.Men with a few lines & balding heads,are still considered sexy as women feel that it's part of his character.Women on the otherhand with a few lines are just considered to be old looking & therefore less attractive by the majority of men.

I myself,i love older women.I feel that as women get older they mature sexually & become more aware of their sexuality.That for me is so sexy.It does'nt bother me that a lady has a few extra pounds here & there.

For me,if she is smart,can hold a good converstaion,has a good sense of humour,is warm,& caring,among other things,then thats what i'm attracted to.The sex part of a relationship can always be worked on over time,but it is a plus if she can show some skills in that way.

A woman who is confident in her sexuality,not afraid to explore it,& enjoy what she has,& willing to learn as we grow older together,now thats what I call sexy & appealing.


"Always remember...keep smiling!"



small12handle 43F
18 posts
11/13/2005 6:19 am

Sex appeal, boy we all take it with our age and the person we are with. You might look at someone alot different than I would. What i think might be sexy, will not be with others. I also look at it this way also, the younger we get the more appeal we gain in other places that we did not have it before.

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