What has blogs to offer for me  

rm_firehot2003 57M
2111 posts
1/22/2006 5:01 am

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What has blogs to offer for me

With all that has happened in blogland lately
A lot of which i know very little about
I've been thinking is it all worth while
Blogs were fun blogs, were friendly, a way for people to communicate
But now I'm having second thoughts
Some of my friend were leaving but thankfully they returned which I'm really really glad.
But some have stayed away others have taken a break
For me now I'm wondering what has and will blogs do for me
I have cared for my blog friends have lived with them in times of trouble and pain have laughed and cried with them
I have emailed and msn some tried to be a supportive caring friend but to what avail
I feel i have given a lot but what has been returned
I'm still lonely,sad and sometimes happy.
Haven't meet anyone yet and not really likely to either not for the want of trying on my behalf.
It has me wondering am i that unattractive or where have i gone wrong
So fellow blogers can you see where I'm at
In my months bloging nothing has really changed OK i have some friends but sometimes you need a human touch,someone to hold you, someone to make you feel important, someone to laugh and smile with you.
I'm having doubts can i get that here
Do people mean what they say
I confused i know, I'm too sensitive but am i looking for too much
Do i know what I'm looking for??
Can anyone help give me some insight

I've sat here looking at the screen, will i post it will i not.So i guess if you see it you'll know i posted it

Love firehotxxxxxxxxxxx



sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/22/2006 8:21 am

I have just known you for awhile and it's obviously through the blogs. I can't say I know you all that well since we never really talked in private. I know I cannot offer you any human touch or to hold you but I can at least try to make you feel important, laugh and smile. The distance is great between us and I will offer what I can. I will not promise you what's impossible when we're not next to each other. Do not despair. You never know what the future holds for you. Good things happen when you least expect them to happen. Remember to always appreciate today because yesterday is already your past and tomorrow might not come at all.


Sulabula 45F
12659 posts
1/22/2006 9:35 am

For me blogging is fun...but there are other aspects to the site as well...you could try the chat room or the IM perhaps to make contact with people...and please don't despair...you will find someone

Sula xxx

Sula xxx

come visit my blog


hugs_4_u2 39F

1/22/2006 10:29 am

don`t despair hunni we all feel like that at times! think of the friends u`ve made and will make and when ur least expecting it that special some1 will appear to hold u tight! i`m never gonna give up who knows whats round the corner theres always hope.
ur a special person even though we`v never spoken i know from ur replies on my blogs.
in the meantime cyber hugs and kisses to u!

hugs xxxx


rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
1/22/2006 11:44 am

i blog because it is a space to write. i have made friends here, even some cyber-lovers. but that was not my intention. my intention was to express myself.

you are not unattractive; you are a lovely, kind person. it just really takes time -- i know you've heard that before! but it is true.

i think in the comments, people do go overboard in the feelings they express towards others and then a lot of it is just flirting. so i think take some of it with a pinch of salt ... but continue to explore the possibilities.

i was also wondering if i am too greedy, seeking too much... don't have any answers there ... however, i do think there is some woman out there looking for someone exactly like you, so don't give up!

i think sulabula is right that you should also explore other possibilities ... me? i'm too shy for chatrooms...



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saddletrampsk 54F

1/22/2006 8:22 pm

Don't give up sweety..blogging can be so much fun without all the politics and wars


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
1/23/2006 12:32 am

my blog is an extension of me ,i blog for me and to make other smile as for meeting guys,my mail box is full but i reply to some IM with others and i've come to tne conclusion i'm too bloody fussy,plus what i have is ok so i really only need a special friend and the special is hard to find.

Don't give up on looking as you never know what may happen,try the chat rooms more and remember while ireland is a small place there are some wonderful women from there on here and just try and make friends with them first and see what happens after that,
hugs hun


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angelwoarose 41F

1/23/2006 1:43 pm

I blog as if no one with read it....it lets me vent with I'm angry or hurt...cry with I'm sad...and celebrate when I'm happy. If it touches someone than that's just an added bonus...and if a friendship develops than that's even more.

btw I really like your blogs


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/24/2006 5:35 am

Hope you are feeling better today. I'll be here for you


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/24/2006 9:25 pm

Yay that is so good to hear Lets go get some ice cream.


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/25/2006 2:29 am

You don't have to eat any. I just want you to hold my hand and go get some for me


rm_emerald6912 49M
545 posts
1/25/2006 3:03 am

I only just started reading some of your blogs, and for me they show a sharing and caring person. So I hope you do keep writing and sharing your thoughts here. As I am sure that many others read your words and get some solace and some joy. I know that I have from my quick perusal.


rm_SusieQ27 46F
2093 posts
1/30/2006 12:41 am

Fire...don't try the chatroom,darlin, you'll be there all on your own and it's no funat all. i know, I've been there with just the tumbleweede blowing through, for company..lol..keep goming back here, it seems you have a lot of very positive feedback.

Luv n stuff...............Susie......


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