rm_firehot2003 56M
2111 posts
1/12/2006 9:19 am

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With what has gone on in AdultFriendFinder lately.I was inspired to write this.There seems to be a lot of women who have had there trust in men shattered. Also with the Todd incident it brought home to me just how important trust is to me.

Most of you will know i'm a firefighter. For any firefighter you have to trust you partner when you go into a fire that'll he'll be looking out for you and i would be for him. Also when i driving a fire appliance the crew have to trust my driving skills to get to the incident as fast as possible but while doing it safely.As well if i'm driving the ambulance with someone seriously ill.They need to trust my skill to get to the hospital asap but safely. These are only examples i'm not looking for a pat on the back but my job is based on trust and without it there would be a lot of unsafe practises.

Getting back to AdultFriendFinder if men are constantly breaking trust then its only right that women have to put practises in place to protect themselves. I'm not saying that only men break trust women do as well as i know. But it seems to affect women more than men.

For someone who knows only to trust i find it hard to understand why people need to break trust or why the need to stage an accident its just beyond me.

I think if everyone looks at there life they will see that trust is a big part of it.

While on AdultFriendFinder we have to trust that what someone says is in fact what they mean.But alas i know some people are on here to cause problems, and not what most of us want which is to meet like minded people

Can anyone help me understand??

Do others live by trust??

Has your trust put you in a difficult situation??

Is it mostly women thats affected??

Can anyone try to explain why its done.

I believe that respect and trust should be given even on a sex site like AdultFriendFinder

love firehotxxxxxxxxxxx

caressmewell 53F

1/12/2006 12:07 pm

I want to trust but something always happens to show that I have to be wary.

Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
1/12/2006 12:21 pm

Fire...U are so right...Trust and respect are very important on a site like this...Living by trust is important...that's why I build up a friendship before meeting is too dangerous other wise...I know i want to meet like minded people....but that has to include trust as well

Good Blog

Sula xxx

Sula xxx

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sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/12/2006 1:08 pm

I agree that respect and trust should be given on AdultFriendFinder. Respect is a huge must if you'd like to communicate with each other. Trust is not to be demanded but to be earned by you. Some people simply don't deserve any trust from others. Generally I trust other people until they decided to betray my trust. Once they do, they will never ever gain my trust again.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
1/12/2006 2:06 pm

i usually go on instint 99 times out of a 100 it seems to work.

why,who,i don't know

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_SusieQ27 46F
2093 posts
1/13/2006 1:35 am

Hello Firehot
This is a very interesting blog and I agree with Sula, you can't afford to be impiulsive on a site like this. Anyhow, it'll be about 5 years before I agree to meet anyone,from AdultFriendFinder, again..that should be long enough to suss them out and anyway, then I'll be too old for gallavanting about after that or life will be just beginning.Mmmm...nice thought.

Luv n stuff, Susie........

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
1/15/2006 1:40 pm

trusting is really hard to do. i wish i had it in me...

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