Just Me  

rm_firehot2003 57M
2111 posts
3/27/2006 11:18 am

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Just Me

Fire has had a tough day emotionally so just a few words i came across that meant something to me today. Thanks to a good friend and a very good listener the feeling of being kicked in the stomach has gone and fire can smile again xx

I may be different than you, but that doesn't make me bad.

When you tease and make fun of me, it makes me very sad.

I may not be as smart, or as attractive as you.

But I am still human, and my heart can break in two.

I have special things about me, I think you would agree,

If instead of laughing and mocking you would take the time to see.

Moral: Don't judge others. We all have flaws or imperfections. Spread love, not hate

love firehotxxxxxxxxx

HBowt2 59F

3/27/2006 12:28 pm

Hate is easy Fire...Love takes more thought....

caressmewell 53F

3/27/2006 1:34 pm

Oh sweetie..some peeps are so empty that being mean is the only emotion they can handle. HBowt2 is right..it's easy to hate.

Fallen_Angel_777 49F

3/27/2006 1:50 pm

OMG how you touched me with this. I don't know what happened, but I want you to know that I can sympathize. I feel sadness and beat myself up EVERY SINGLE DAY because my appearance is not perfect. You wouldn't believe what I have gone through to hide what I believe is ugliness from others because of the pressure to be perfect in this world.

Remember this...in someone's eyes (you may not even know it), you are perfect just the way you are and more than likely that person matters more than all the other people on the face of this earth.

Here's a song for you:

Don't Laugh at Me

I'm a little boy with glasses, the one they call a geek
a little girl who never smiles cuz I got braces on my teeth
and I know how it feels to cry myself to sleep

I'm that kid on every playground who is always chosen last
a single teenage mother tryin to overcome her past
You don't have to be my friend if it's too much to ask

Don't laugh at me, don't call me names
Don't get your pleasure from my pain
In God's eyes we're all the same
Some day we'll all have perfect wings

Don't laugh at me

I'm a cripple on the corner
You pass me on the street
I wouldn't be out here begging if I had enough to eat
and don't think I don't notice that our eyes never meet

I lost my wife and little boy somewhere down that yellow line
The day we laid 'em in the ground was the day I lost my mind
Right now I'm down to holdin' this little cardboard sign

Don't laugh at me, Don't call me names
Don't get your pleasure from my pain
In God's eyes we're all the same
Someday we'll all have perfect wings

Don't laugh at me

I'm Fat, I'm thin..I'm Short, I'm tall..I'm deaf.. I'm blind
Hey aren't we all
Don't laugh at me...... Don't call me names
Don't get your pleasure from my pain
In God's eyes we're all the same
Someday we'll all have perfect wings

Don't laugh at me

written by
Allen Shamblin & Steve Seskin, and
recorded by Mark Wills

Have a great day Firehot and if you ever need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on, please choose me...I would honored to be called a friend! Now...


Chele46H 49F

3/27/2006 3:15 pm

Hi Fire

Soz you've had a tough day. Here's a (((((hug))))) to help lift you. It's given with pleasure and thanks for the touching words and thoughts you've given me when I needed it.

Chele xx

hugs4uagain 39F

3/27/2006 5:57 pm

touching words hunni but remember one thing u r a very special person whos help me through some real tough times with ur kind words!!

love hugs xxxxxxx

rm_emmie234 52F
608 posts
3/27/2006 7:09 pm

Ah, the perils of counseling.
We go to strengthen, but first must tear down and then rebuild.
Hugs hugs sweet man! You are great, always remember that.

Fallen_Angel_777 49F

3/27/2006 8:13 pm

    Quoting rm_firehot2003:
    Fallen Thanks for the very kind words and the song just great
    To fill you in i'm having marriage difficulties and councilling and it was one of those tough days that no one should have, but far to many do. It touches me when people reach out a hand of friendship so thank you so much.

    love firehotxxxxxxxx
You are very welcome! I'm so sorry to hear that. I have found that marriage is harder than I ever in my life thought it would be, but one day at a time I suppose!

Hope you're feeling better!

Sulabula 45F
12659 posts
3/28/2006 4:53 am

Very apt saying for me as well

Sula xxx

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shar1 55F
606 posts
3/28/2006 7:41 am

Fire... I told you I knrw you were special and unique, never forget that. sorry things have bee crap for you.. have a hug HUGHUGHUG...

Not much I know but sometimes people just needs a hug.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/29/2006 4:31 am

You know I won't judge you for I don't like to be judged or compared. You're awesome Fire.

saddletrampsk 54F

3/29/2006 6:56 am

awesome post fire..I think I am feeling what you feel right now

rm_SusieQ27 46F
2093 posts
3/30/2006 9:21 pm

Firehot, now don't you go hating anyone, dear. It's such a negative emotion. It ends up eating into you, and making you bitter. It's much better to 'Turn the other cheek', if you can, hun.

I can't understand how you think, darlin. Don't you know you're a wonderful, valuable person, darlin? Think of all the people you've helped..aawww..that should cheer you up, dear..

Luv n stuff {=} Susie {=}

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