Fire update  

rm_firehot2003 56M
2111 posts
1/30/2006 7:29 am

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4/8/2006 7:02 am

Fire update

To keep you up on my situation. Well alot of talk has happened over the last few days(which wasn't the norm)Which has resulted in me staying in the relationship till June. Reason being we felt it would be better for our daugher who is doing her final year in school and rather than put extra pressure on her when all her exams are coming up.
In that time we will attempt to see if there is anything in the relationship that can be repaired.
Dont know what the outcome will be but whats 6 months when there is a whole lifetime ahead.
I would like to thank each and everyone of you for the support.It was greatly appreciated and my heart is much lighter as a result. Two people were especially supportive 1 who emailed me with her addie and offered an ear to bent and another who i chated to on msm and who advised and gave me a cyber shoulder to cry on.You both know who you are a big big hug to you both thanks I wont forget what you did for me that i promise

love firehotxxxxxxxxx

Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
1/30/2006 9:25 am

Fire....I hope everything works for you

Sula xxx

come visit my blog

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
1/30/2006 11:05 am

at least your moving forwards and communicating,hugs honey

I'm a

i'm here to stay

hugs_4_u2 39F

1/30/2006 3:17 pm

u`ll get there hunni just follow your heart!

hugs from hugs xxxx

caressmewell 53F

1/30/2006 3:36 pm

Good luck!

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/30/2006 4:34 pm

Fire babes
Rem what i said to you
Im always here

angelwoarose 41F

1/30/2006 5:06 pm

Good luck to you Firehot. You definantly deserve to be happy.

*hugs and kisses*

HBowt2 58F

1/31/2006 1:33 am

funny thing fire... in a totally similiar situation myself...daughter doing her final year too...left an email open by accident and one thing led to another....a month into the process you are just starting and things are better than they have been for a long time....don't know how it will end but hope things go the best way for you........xxxxxxx

rm_emerald6912 48M
545 posts
1/31/2006 3:22 am

Fire, good luck with it all, and I hope all works out for the best for all those involved.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
1/31/2006 11:24 am

~hugz~.... wishing you the best for your chosen journey. May it have an ending as happy as possible

and gud luck for your daughter with all of those xamz

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
1/31/2006 3:18 pm

I wish you well. You sound like you have a level head. All will work out

Purry {=}


tillerbabe 55F

1/31/2006 9:04 pm

I wish you well sweetie.. who knows what the future will bring? I hope it is only good things to you.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
2/1/2006 9:35 am

I am sorry for haven't being around while you needed some moral support and what not. I am back now!! Hope to talk to you through the blogs again. Stay strong. I have faith in you

Chele46H 49F

2/9/2006 2:29 pm

Hi Fire

I know it's probably the hardest decision you've ever been faced with. I too have faced it and decided that life for my kids would be easier with Mum and Dad apart but amicable rather than together for "their sake" and at each other's throats due to stress.

It's not been easy, I've had moments of OMG what am I doing, times I've been in tears cause I dread the loneliness and then the thoughts that I should have been stronger and stayed with the girls' dad cause I've robbed them of a "family" unit.

But at the end of the day, the girls have both told me that they appreciate the reason that this path was chosen and they support me and their dad - a very grown up thought from girls who are only 13 and 11 years old.

There will be no easy time for it if it's what is on the cards. All you can do is follow your instincts and limit the damage by making whatever you decide to be as amicable as you can.

Your daughter will understand more than you think and she will have a strength that will amaze you.

I'm thinking of you and wish you all the best in whatever you decide cause you come accross as a guy that will not only take his own feelings and needs into account.

Chele xx

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