People actually "hook up" on AFF or not?  

rm_firefytnzak 46M
9 posts
3/13/2005 7:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

People actually "hook up" on AFF or not?

Just asking the question of whether people actually meet. Or, is it mostly all play acting and just talking and chatting back and forth back and forth? Either way is fine - it is what it is. I would think that people are on this site for actual encounters though - maybe I'm wrong but I don't think so. Plus, how would you meet - I mean for the ladies I think it would be quite toublesome to give out personal info to a stranger. Just some thoughts - maybe some feedback will clear it all up.


LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
3/13/2005 11:16 pm

Hi Zak,

Yes, SOME people actually do hook up on here. I've had some nice dates, and some not so nice dates, but it's all good. You just have to be really patient and spend the time required to find the ones you want to meet. It's a HUGE investment of time and energy, between reading emails, responding or deleting as appropriate, emailing back and forth, chatting, camming, etc. Sometimes it ends up being a complete waste of that time and energy, and sometimes it's a small price to pay for what you receive.

As for giving out personal information, I don't do that until we've been in contact a few times, then I'll give my regular email and/or cell phone number and go from there. People need to trust their instincts - if it doesn't feel right, then don't do it. First meetings are usually in a public place for coffee or a little something to eat. No pressure, no expectations - basically to see if we really do click in person.


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