Why can't past loves look at the joys you have had?  

rm_exusmcdoc 50M
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10/27/2005 6:23 pm

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Why can't past loves look at the joys you have had?

Got a Ex girl that wont quit contacting me, after SHE broke off our relationship some months ago...we were engaged, built a home together...raise our combined five kids together for 2 and a half years.....then She started lying, engaging in alot of Toxic self destructive behaviour, drugs, alcohol, ect...lost her career, got arrested, wrote 34,000.00 in bad checks over a period of a few months, then I came home one day and she was in bed with a couple she had met in a bar the night before and had Meth in the house. So,I flipped out, threw her out, then paid off her bad checks to keep her out of jail....
Can't seem to convince her after she tore my heart out and stomped it to a pulp that she needs to move on....find her joys in her kids and life..get her head screwed on straight and move on with her life.....
I try and look for the best in everything and every person....any advice on how I can compassionately let this woman know that I am not HER knight in shining armor?
I would rather have the memeories of our great sex life and friendship, than keep being reminded of her emotional instability.

Thanks, Doc

rm_funteamcpl 81M/57F

10/27/2005 7:50 pm

That is a tough one, but there is no easy way to tell her if you really do not want her in your life only you can decide that and take the actions you feel you need to, to get on with your life!

rm_exusmcdoc 50M

10/28/2005 12:08 am

she hears but she doesnt listen..i had to take out a restraing order this evening..she broke into my home, took a bunch of benadryls and left a suicide note....found her laying in my living room floor unconcious...I guess i just need to pray for her to get healthy and Move on with her life...its kinda freaking me out!

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