Please Listen ....  

rm_euphoria06 50
36 posts
4/2/2006 3:17 pm

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5/28/2006 7:05 am

Please Listen ....

I will make a long blog a short one..I, like many girls here at AdultFriendFinder. receive lots of attention. It is very difficult to answer, let alone talk, respond or IM p/chat with everyone.. I would like to say that i am speaking 4 many women hopefully and can understand where I am commin from. When you are in a chat area, and the statement is made that you don not want to leave and private chat. I, in this instance,. I had explained to him that I wasn't going to privately talk with him he wouldn't take NO for an answer. He was rude and completely obnoxiuos with me. I politely refused and eventually he apologized. He complied with my request and listened. There are not so patient women out there and if I was not patient I would've completely disconnected him,( and I would've been a bitch)So Why don't guys listen?

rm_valde1962 54M
11 posts
5/24/2006 1:52 pm

The forum leads to this problem in two ways. First of all, the anonymity allows trolls to creep in...socially-retarded people that don't have a clue in the real-world feel emboldened to speak up on-line.Some guys aren't good at taking 'no' for an answer.
Secondly, 90% of communication is non-verbal. People become frustrated when their thoughts and wishes don't flow smoothly onto the page. Without facial expression, stance, body language, eye contact, etc, it can become very frustrating.

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