What's up??  

rm_enticing1957 59F
4 posts
10/6/2005 1:00 pm

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What's up??

OK, I'm wondering, what's up? How come when a girl meets a guy on here he never looks like his picture? I mean, why now show us your stuff? I think that if you want your woman or lady to come back and do you again you would want to be upfront from the start. Let us know what we're getting into. I know that if you show me one thing and I dream about that for a while and then when I finally meet you and your a whole other story, it's not kool. I want my friends to be upfront with me, all the way, and I will try to do the same.


rm_lilljoe 58
1 post
10/6/2005 3:59 pm

WHAT'S UP IS SIMPLY THAT TOO MANY PEOPLE LOOK AT HE OBVIOUS(EXTERIOR), MAKE THEIR ASSUMPTION AS TO WHAT THEY SAW, AND DECIDE THATS WHAT THEY WANT. UNFORTUNATELY, IT TAKES SOME TIME TO SEE WHAT THE REAL PERSON IS REALLY LIKE. ITS LIKE A NEW CAR, SHINY, SMELLS AND LOOKS GOOD. BUT AFTER A FEW DAYS IT JUST A CAR. SO IT IS WITH A PERSON, LOOKS ARE ONLY THE SHINNY AND SMELLS GOOD EXTERIOR. I BELIEVE YOU MUST LOOK INTO A PERSONS EYES TO REALLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE EVEN IF IT IS IN A PICTURE. FOR EXAMPLE, EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE ALL THOSE BIG ATTRIBUTES, I KNEW THERE WAS A BIG HEART. YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING, "LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP". WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AND CAN SEE THE BEAUTY WITHIN IT IS WORTH THE EFFORT YOU PUT IN TO REALIZE THE GOAL.


bigton29 55M  
3 posts
10/7/2005 1:55 pm

You know, to some its just a wicked game, played by some, and others, like yourself, keep it real. It happens so you just have to overlook it. Be you all the time!!


rm_enticing1957 59F

10/10/2005 11:21 am

yes, i think you are right. i try to be me as much as possible but sometimes it's hard here. i'm not sure if the guys are looking for pure d ole sluts or someone they want to keep around for a while and remember with fond memories instead of regret or guilt....that's me anyway, don't want to try out every guy on here til i find the one i want, i want to feel it and know it by the way we communicate....i don't know, maybe that's dumb to....


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