Grrrrr!  

rm_elena0528 37F
43 posts
8/3/2006 9:16 pm

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8/7/2006 8:50 pm

Grrrrr!


Ok, someone PLEASE reassure me that somewhere out there in the world, nice guys still exist!
I don't expect a heck of a lot from the guys I actually meet in person from here - nice conversation, friendship, maybe more, but I swear, I must be a magnet for the jerks of the world on here.
I try to be sexy and confident, but sometimes it takes me a bit to feel comfortable and relaxed when I meet someone new.

Ok, so not EVERY guy I've met from here has been a jerk - there have been some nice gentlemen, so yes, some nice guys still exist - unfortunately, most live too far away for anything but chat friends, which is ok. Good conversation about subjects other than sex is awesome once in a while!
Now to clarify what I mean by "nice guy," I mean someone who, even if we're just meeting for no-stings-attached fun, is considerate of my feelings and my pleasure. I try my best to make sure he gets pleasure. Is it too much to ask for the same in return?

Ok, now that I've gotten that out of my system, I feel a little better. It's hard to be positive sometimes when most of the people you meet are jerks.

Until next time . . .

rm_thekanuck 45M
2 posts
8/3/2006 10:04 pm

hey elena

yes still nice guys out there,,now here's ahint for you if youwant to meet a nice guy,why are you posing in the nude. you are loosing all your selfrespect and therfore so dothe guys, if you are posting sex on this site get ready and receive lot's of jerks

hope you have better luck


DoctorBooty 35M  
5762 posts
8/3/2006 10:15 pm

Actually I've felt the same way about WOMEN i've dated or met. Seems to me that too many college girls are more concerned about themselves.

Then you have to look at this from the other side, I've played the nice guy role and its rarely paid off. We just get stuck in the 'friend zone', Nice Guys finish last.

Just the way I see it...


rm_elena0528 37F
12 posts
8/4/2006 6:19 am

    Quoting rm_thekanuck:
    hey elena

    yes still nice guys out there,,now here's ahint for you if youwant to meet a nice guy,why are you posing in the nude. you are loosing all your selfrespect and therfore so dothe guys, if you are posting sex on this site get ready and receive lot's of jerks

    hope you have better luck
Thanks for the response - and to answer your questions, let me go into a little more detail....
I met a guy for sex - heck, that's one of the reasons I'm here - and he stepped out for some air saying he'd be right back, and he didn't return. Nothing really happened - except he got more pleasure out of our encounter than I did. It just pissed me off he left, making me believe he'd be right back. Of course, I'm pissed at myself for being naive.
When I say "nice guy," what I'm thinking of is NOT happily-ever-after - just someone I can have a decent conversation with and share mutual pleasure.
Does that make sense?


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