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meet and greet
meet and greet
25th of March 830pm
we will be in the 'cove' of the bar...just ask the doorman where that is....
This is a great opportunity to get to put faces to some f the handles that you chat with....come and check it out..the more the merrier
THE NEXT LITTLE BIT IS SOMETHING I READ ON THE LOCAL SITE...WHEN GOING TO THESE MEET AND GREETS...remember a few of these rules....haha..sometimes they dont all apply..but be kind...and be respectful...sometimes people are only meant to be friends...and others are meant to be more!!
From meeting people online, I have gotten to understand a few things,
rules if you will. Not everyone will agree to them, but they are just
my observations and I thought I would share them with you, as follows:
1. Know, understand and respect the relationship boundaries of the
person you are chatting with and about to meet/play with. Everyone,
including couples, have their reason for being here.
2. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn to take
rejection and to give it without being rude.
3. There is usually someone else that the person you are talking with
is also talking to... don't sweat it, but be open about it... if it
is meant to be, it will be.
4. Be yourself and true to yourself... is the only way to get what
you truly want.
5. If he is doing it with you, he'll do it to you.... meaning, if he
is cheating on someone with you........
6. Try not to get caught up in the buffet syndrome... Online sites
like AdultFriendFinder can be like a buffet. But if you take on too
much, over fill your plate, some of the good stuff falls off and hits
the floor and you never know it till it is too late. Also, than
everyone else can see what you are eating...
7. Most importantly, get to know the person you are about to meet.
I see so many men on AdultFriendFinder say they have bad experiences. Why? Because
they go into the chat room and say “wanna f***” ang get turned down.
Sorry boys, most women want their mind tickled before their cervix.
Besides, getting to know the person makes sex soooooooooooooooo much
Just my thoughts. Add your own if you like.
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3/26/2006 3:49 pm
oh my...we had a blast....thanks to everyone who came out!!!|
4/8/2009 1:01 pm
It is Soooooo true You have to be aware of peoples feeling and what they are looking for. Dont be judgementa and let things happen |