Not sure I am ready for this site...  

rm_eclectrixx 62F
6 posts
2/25/2005 5:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Not sure I am ready for this site...

Hey there,
I was attempting to find a better cyber dating site where people are more realistic and came accross this one. After navigating around it a bit, I decided to post a profile and see where it leads me.As I found out, nowhere, lol,I have to be a paid member to access most features. I will consider that. I even decided to post a couple of pictures but at age 50, I dont think the world wants to see nudes. I am hoping to connect with just one man who believes that sex is the greatest part of a good relationship and has the intellect to support it. Nothing too major, just day and night fun together, but monogamous, or is that a bad word on here?

Quicksilver512 64M
5 posts
2/25/2005 6:47 pm

Nice post. The computer I use is slow. I had time to read all of your words before your photo popped up. I was pleasantly surprised! You are a very attractive woman! Age, and weight doesn't seem to keep some women from posting nude pics. I wish some of your sisters would follow your example. Everyone seems to want what they are not going to get. Everyone is leaving a profile aimed at their dream lover who would be ten years younger than themselves. I have been a member for a year and have not really taken full advantage of the website. Perhaps I should work at making a connection during those chance encounters at the market or video store. At this point a dinner and movie is looking like a great time.

rm_LovinReferee 70M
1 post
2/25/2005 7:07 pm

Nudes are nice but couples need a heck of a lot more than sex. Monogamous is nice and I truely hope to find a mate that understands what it means.

Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
2/25/2005 7:31 pm

No bad word there at all eclectrix, all you have to wait for is the guy who is interested in what you have said and gets out of his own desperate and dateless wanker trip and takes the time to get to know you, have patience dear.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

warmguy2329 60M

2/26/2005 1:45 am

I have to admit, yours is a really good post. And dont underestimate yourself. Your picture is quite attractive. And dont all insist on nude pictures. I have been on here a while and met some very interesting people, intelligent as well. You have probably found the right site, since I think most of all agree with you that sex is the greatest part of a good relationship .Good luck with your search.

Apolybear 54M

2/26/2005 5:38 pm

Monogamy isn't a bad word, it's just not the focus of this site.

Because this is a sex and alternative lifestyle site, you're going to see a lot of men who want casual sex, or married men who want to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. Then there are guys like me who are responsibly non-monogamous (I have an open marriage).

On traditional dating sites, men say all the right things women wish to hear. The truth is, most men want to have sex with a woman and then decide if he cares about her and wants to explore a relationship. Women usually desire the opposite.

If you're determined to find a monogamous relationship, my blog may not be of interest to you. Or, you may be curious about alternative lifestyles.

Take care

rm_eclectrixx 62F

2/27/2005 7:25 pm

Thanks for reading and posting your comments. I want to clarify one thing about people not responding to email. I have been on the site less than one day and have over 30 emails, plus invitations and winks. Since I am not yet a paying member (still navigating my way around) the system only lets me reply to a small number of emails per day. The rest go without so much as an acknowledgement. So, men, if you are miffed as to why you dont even get a no thanks from a lady, it may be because she cannot respond to more than 5 or 6 emails in a day.
The comment that the site is primarily for sex and alternative lifestyles is noted, but I think there are more people on here looking for love and accepting sex as a substitute in the meantime, always hoping that the next one will be the "ONE". By the say, here are a couple of North American statistics that you might want to consider. The average penis is 5 3/4 inches long so the ones who are bravely showing their pictures are well endowed and the ones who are not, most likely are average. Another interesting statistic is that intercourse, that is thrusting, last from 6-10 minutes on the average and foreplay about 10-11 minutes. So twenty minutes sessions are kind of where most people having sex are at. I know you are going to say that is not you and you might be right. I think people who use a site like this are not the average ones out there.

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